Ok, my boyfriend was telling me about this girl from his high school in which he just graduated from...she used to like him, but they never dated...one time, she did him a favor...like b4 school ended...then they graduated, and went on about their lives...Then like starting maybe in September, he tells me about her liking him...she sends him e-mails about how she wants him to come to her hosue and she needs his phone number and address...I didn't believe him, and he showed me the e-mail...I laughed...& he replied back told her he's in a relationship right now and that them going out wouldn't be appropriate or whatever...She says ok, like she gave up...THEN...lol, she starts it all over again about how she really really REEEEEEALLY misses him and wants to be with him...and he tells her the same thing again...I really feel bad for her because of the things he told me she has done...she sounds really nuts...she can't spell & she has been e-mailing him like every other day....
2006-11-15 01:49:32 · 13 answers · asked by i ♥þîÑk☆ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He's just at the point where he doesn't reply anymore...she sounds nuts (seriously) I wish I could show you al lthe e-mails... I know it isn't my place to confront her, because I don't do the whole drama thing and fighting over guys... she hasn't really done anything, but is she in denial that he doesn't want her??? or what? I don't understand her...she's nuts...lol....but what should I tell him to do?...
2006-11-15 01:52:23 · update #1
lmao just ignore her......doesnt sound dangerous.......you dont have to confront her......no need to complicate your life with such nonsense.......you have a great approach to dealing with this.....i liked your humor about it.....
2006-11-15 02:08:16 · answer #1 · answered by SpinKick 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My friend,
Your husband is the most luckiest fellow on earth. Becoz what the feeling inside you is the feeling of pain due to the love you have on him. And the reason why you are not reacting to this is due to the trust in your heart. Keep it up boss and have trust. Dont let the other feeling grow up. Have trust sweety. Laugh and laugh and laugh as she is not going to end this battle ( which has no victory ) unless she is found out by some of her dear ones and get spanks.
2006-11-15 02:15:47 · answer #2 · answered by nag K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he should go over to her house, sit her down and tell her how he really feels. But, to do this, YOU must go with him and maybe if she sees the two of you together, she may finally get the hint and leave him alone. Next time she writes, plan this meeting. lol. If she doesn't get the hint then, I'd suggest threatening her with a good old fashioned a*ss kicking and a police harassment report on her too.
2006-11-15 01:53:59 · answer #3 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend that if she trys anything to just walk away from her. Of course I am sure your boyfriend is loyal enough to do that. And just let the girl be. Now if things get real out of hand just tell her that she needs to back off.
2006-11-15 01:53:18 · answer #4 · answered by Daiseee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is pathetic. Clinging on to a guy who already has a girlfriend is such a disturbing thing to do. Tell ur boyfriend to ignore her. Her emails shouldn't affect him or u watsoever if u two are in love and happy together.
2006-11-15 01:53:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her on the phone and calmly explain to her that she is making a fool of herself. If that doesnt work then get your boyfriend to do the same thing. But be nice about it. Its not worth making an enemy over.
2006-11-15 01:52:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she e-mails you returned and sounds friendly, decide for it! If she would not e mail you returned or delivers a short little answer, i think of it particularly is secure to assert she would not prefer to stay in touch with you.
2016-10-22 03:18:24 · answer #7 · answered by balderas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore !
Also registering a new Yahoo ID is not that difficult !
Forget the e-mail that she knows !
2006-11-15 01:54:11 · answer #8 · answered by Sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Block her email address and move on.
Best of Luck
2006-11-15 01:52:53 · answer #9 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to be more direct, ignore her, then block her emails. It's his life, his choice, you can't do anything but be supportive.
2006-11-15 01:52:01 · answer #10 · answered by nanny4hap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋