I just want to know what will a girl feel or write back if I would write a letter by not saying my name and asking to answer me.I'm saying I like you.I just have a problem going to a girl and saying hello! when i don't know.It's like that moment I am becoming frozen.Is it only with me or every male feels that???
2006-11-15 01:32:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Maybe "spineless dweeb" is a bit strong, but that's heading in the right direction.
What's the point of sending a letter to a girl telling her you like her and then not signing it? How, good brother, is she going to answer you?
Maybe you're not ready for a relationship just yet. Your question suggests that you are very young. If you like someone and you want to be liked back, be friendly, kind, polite, and sincere with that person and if it's going to happen, it will. If not, at least you've made a friend, right?
2006-11-15 01:40:45 · answer #1 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not just guys who get nervous, girls do too! But I think you'd be better to put your name at the bottom... or turn it into some sort of scanvenger hunt, where that first letter will lead her to a second letter, and then to a third, etc, until on the last one you put your name (and you might want to writ small notes, not letters, if you were to do it that way). Anyway, good luck. What's the worst that can happen? She doesn't like you back? Yeah, that sucks, but you'll get over it and be liking someone else in no time if that's the case. Don't worry bout it! :)
2006-11-15 09:39:01 · answer #2 · answered by Skyler789 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most every guy gets nervous at one time or another. She may smile as she reads the letter but become disappointed and or freaked out when there is no signature. Start by smiling and saying hello when you pass her by.
2006-11-15 09:35:12 · answer #3 · answered by nanny4hap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say it would be kinda hard for her to answer if she doesn't know who is writting to her. All you have to do is build up the nerve and just tell her to her face or write her a letter telling her you like her and who you are. Good Luck.
2006-11-15 09:45:24 · answer #4 · answered by bigkountryogre 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think you just need to suck it up and speak to her. Obviously, you could always do 'small talk' with her in order to get to know her better.
Basically, you just need to remember that if you're nervous and it shows, then it's only going to have negative effects on your chances. Just find some way to stay calm and go for it!
Good luck.
2006-11-15 09:38:53 · answer #5 · answered by brilioto 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the girl will just be left feeling confused and get bored with the game after a while
if you like this girl a much then you need to get over yourself and ask her out if you don,t someone else will then you will end up regretting it
good luck
2006-11-15 09:46:08 · answer #6 · answered by lizella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's common to feel frozen. I would just go up to her and start talking to her. INvite her out for a drink or to see a movie. The worst that could happen is that she says no.
2006-11-15 09:35:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're going to be a secret admirer do it right. Write poems, send flowers... and then once you feel like she's interested have her meet you somewhere.
2006-11-15 09:44:37 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand why you would be nervous to tell someone you like them, but if you're gonna do it go ahead and sign your name. Otherwise she might get creeped out and think she has a stalker!
2006-11-15 09:36:25 · answer #9 · answered by Hope 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her talk to her in person, if she doesnt know its you writing the letter she might think its someone else and then your in trouble, what if she thought she knew who wrote it and started giving them more attention, then you would feel stupid
2006-11-15 09:36:46 · answer #10 · answered by aj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋