i cried for 2 hrs yesterday, i dont know what to do, please help?

Question

ok, well im a girl, and one of my female friends has a big big crush on me, she said shes heartbroken cause i talk to alot of guys, well most of my friends happen to be guys and im not gunna dump my friends, well the guy i was talking to, i met through another female friend of mine, she introduced me to him and everything, and shes pissed cause me and him are pretty good friends now. and nwo he feels he has to chose between us. and all this crap is going on between all of us, and the two girls are cousins, then another girls comes into the story and calls me a wh*** and stuff like that saying im causing all these problems for everyone. and the guy that said he feels like he has to chose between me and the other girl of who to stay friends with doesnt wanna do that. he said that its like either he never talks to me again, or never talks to her again.he said hes gunna try to make it worse. if it helps at all, im almost 16, the girl that likes me is almost 16, the other girls=16 boy=16

and the guy im good friends with now likes me, more than a friend, and i like him more than a friend.
but he has a gf
so
yea
this is all confusing
its a longer story and more crap
but i cant type it all

Answer 1

First of ask a question yourself. What do you want to be? You are just 16 remaining in your circle also just 16. No one knows what is what. Please don’t be crazy. Life is very precious. If you loose your valuable time you won’t get it. If you loose one person @ some stage of life, you can find some one else some where. Don’t be stupid just for small things. Try to be wise, thing broadly. Make good friends, read good books. Keep a target, try to reach it. Don’t be in trouble just because of you. Every thing is part in life. But life is not a part of some thing. So be cautious while doing some thing. Do well, be good. Every thing will be good for you. Good luck. If you find this is good, sure U will leave them alone and you will concentrate on your studies and future carrier.

Answer 2

Simple,First understand you have no right to be talking to someone Else's man,if you two were friends you should have stayed that way.If he has a girlfriend,you need to back off,and wait until he single before approaching him.For all of your other girl friends,let them all know you are no longer seeing this guy and let them choose if they still want to be friends or not,if they decide to leave,so be it and let them go,these were never friends anyway if they can drop you so easy.And move on with your life but learn from it.As you get older what your doing is called being a home wrecker by trying to date someone Else's man.

Answer 3

u are making it worse for u... if u are not into girls tell that girl go to hell; the guy is most likely attracted to u physically because he has a gf so just do what u think is right, 16 years old, u don't have to commit to anyone, you have a lot more things coming to u so dump everyone and find a new crowed that likes to do lots of fun stuff and u won't even remember any of their names!!! don't let anyone get to u!!!

Answer 4

no longer something is going to get extra helpful if he's doing this form of component. who's that this lady? do you already know her? Is she a random stylish from the internet? by way of fact if she is, and he has 'met her as quickly as', then what does that enable you to already know approximately your guy? And on actual of it, he won't communicate approximately it, he needs to furnish you some lame a$$ lie approximately it being a comedian tale?? you won't be able to probable have faith that, and if he expects you to, then he's off his rocker. the terrific component you're able to do is go away him. i comprehend it hurts plenty, have faith me. It has no longer rather been a 12 months on account that I broke up with my ex of five years, and each so often it nonetheless hurts, and makes me cry slightly. yet whilst he's keen to cheat on you emotionally, then he will finally pass each of ways. a extensive heartache now could be extra helpful than extreme heartache 5 years down the line. whilst finding returned on my relationship, I wish i might've executed it faster, and had I ordinary that we would not be jointly on the instant (or continuously like I had thought we'd), i might have left him on the 1st sign of disappointment. You deserve somebody who's thoroughly pleased with you. somebody who kisses the floor you walk on, somebody who will love you for you and purely YOU!

Answer 5

yup the wow of the kiddie realm. i cant say i miss it though. i am 25 married for seven years with three kids ( 5, 3, and 1), and i will feel very sorry for them when they get to this petty moment.

Answer 6

i say stay away from everyone for a little while and let your head clear and let every one calm down then try to solve yor problem you should never have to chose one freind over the other.

Answer 7

who cares about all those people cause it sounds like they are getting mad over some stupid s**t anyways...just do what you wanna do i mean your only 16 so live it up and make your self happy :)

Answer 8

WAY TO MUCH DRAMA GIRLY...YOU SHOULD BE CONCENTRATING ON YOUR EDUCATION, I WOULD BET MY LAST DOLLAR THAT IN 5 YEARS YOU WONT EVEN REMEMBER WHAT THESE OTHER DRAMA QUEENS LOOK LIKE. REACH FOR THE STARS!!!!!

Answer 9

just sounds like a bunch of stupid stuff to me. your all almost adults so just grow up

Answer 10

Tell her that you're straight. Okay?