Me and my girlfriend were together for 2 years and she recently broke off the relationship but she still wants to be good friends and we both still tell each other i love u and im just wondering when u love someone(like an ex) but not in love can the (in love) just reappear again after a while away from that person. We both are young im 22 and she is 20 and we was living together and that's when all the problems happened and now we both live in our own apartment. Sometimes i want to go to her apartment and propose to her and tell her how much i love her but if it's mean to be then we will be together again one day.
2006-11-15 01:10:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it is normal to love someone but not be in love with them
2006-11-15 01:23:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you experience is the normal course of events. You don't stay "in love" with people forever. This is the sad truth. But loving and creating a working relation with someone is valuable, too. Maybe you should stop pondering about this "loving" vs "being in love" thing and try to work out what went wrong while you were together. Getting romance one more time into your life is possible, ONLY if you can work our your problems. Also, are you sure she wants you back? It is possible that she would prefer to move on. Why don't you go to your ex and have an honest, mature conversation with her? You are too young to get married yet, she may help you move on, too.
2006-11-15 09:31:27 · answer #2 · answered by Totally Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their are different types of love. You no longer feel a Romantic love for her, but a love that two friends have for each other. You have great affection for her, you miss her. This is normal, you use to live together. Right now you are both young and need time to get to know what you want in life. You need time to get to know your self again. Don't rush back right away. When you have healed, and the smoke has cleared from your eyes. Then you will know what you want, if it is her, then see what she wants to do. If you really love each other, you will find your way back again.
2006-11-15 09:34:56 · answer #3 · answered by woman of steel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 26 and my partner of ten years has just split with me nine days before we were going to be married. He said to me it was because he wasn't in love with me, although he does love me. To me this sounds like a load of crap! Sorry. You need to be with someone that does love you and is in love with you too. I know that the inital fizz of a relationship goes but you need to be with someone that when that happens they love you enough to be with you, and to try and get some of that fizz back now and again despite work and stress and life. To me that excuse just is not good enough. We all deserve a little bit more than that. We split up before when we were about 19, and he said the same to me then but he came back to me - he said he would never hurt me again. If you do get back together make sure it is because you do love each other enough. I don;t regret my time with him but it is going to take a long time to build a new life. I wish you the best of luck and feel you should move on and find someone who is in love with you and loves you too.
2006-11-15 09:35:17 · answer #4 · answered by Becky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not "love" each other. You cannot love someone and not be in love with them. You "like" each other very much maybe, but when you love someone, you accept them totally. When you love someone, you are able to work through problems. You can be infatuated, in lust, in like, etc., but love is something else entirely. I thyink that's why there are so many divorces and separations. You do not "fall out of" love. You either love someone or you don't. You especially do not fall "back into" love with someone whom you have left or who has left you.
2006-11-15 09:33:09 · answer #5 · answered by Dovie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget it then.
A relationship with no loyalty is not worth entertaining the thought that it may work out.Move on.
2006-11-15 09:26:44 · answer #6 · answered by moebiusfox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you answered your own question.
2006-11-15 09:26:44 · answer #7 · answered by Barbara W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know y"ll luv each other but sometimes its time to move on
2006-11-17 09:43:05 · answer #8 · answered by rebekahhardmon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋