My husband of 7 months whom I was so in love with and thought I had found my true soul mate cleared out my bank account and ran off with out a word how do you heal from the pain?
2006-11-15 01:09:24 · 20 answers · asked by Septangel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thank your lucky stars he's gone.....good ridance to bad rubbish. Move on with your life.
2006-11-15 01:11:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure you are hurt, but you don't need someone like that scum. Be glad he is gone. Remember life is not fair. That was the best piece of advice I ever got. Once you can accept that fact you can pick yourself up and start all over again.
Get involved with some volunteer work so you can get to know new people and have some fun with them. Best wishes for happiness.
And above all let the police know and file charges against him. Also change all financial accounts you have and get new ones that way he can not use your social security number for other transactions on your current accounts.
2006-11-15 09:16:38 · answer #2 · answered by Aliz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, i would call the cops and let them know what happened, than i would file for an anolment and get divorced, , also close out that account do not add anymore money to it, Put a notice in the paper that you are not responsible for any debts he may make while you are getting a divorce. Than worry about healing from the heartache.
2006-11-15 09:14:12 · answer #3 · answered by Lonewolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hunt him down like a rabid dog and make him physically and mentally suffer..
but untill I found him, I would use common sense and call the police, possible the FBI..heck, even Americas Most Wanted..
and do all I can to get the word out about him, get him arrested, and get a court of law to get my money back..if possible..
Its going to be hard to trust, but get out there and meet someone..
maybe you will meet a good guy on the hunt for the capyure of the scumbag..
Good Luck
2006-11-15 09:14:01 · answer #4 · answered by The Chesire Cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think we are more mad at ourselves for letting it happen. we can't control other's nor can we really tell if their intentions are honorable toward us. we see what we want to see, because we love them. he got what he could from u, and moved on to his next victim. unfortunatly we want a relationship so bad, that we often times fail to look into their past, we fail to get to know them, because we are so eager to be loved. there is really no good way to know when we fall in love with someone if it will end badly. just be more careful next time, don't be so trusting right off the bat. get to know someone before u marry them, and check out their track record. unfortunatly he hid well his true intentions, and now u are just seeing the truth of it all. sure it hurts to know we have been scammed and taken, and used when we completely trusted him. u will be more cautious in the future, and more selective. sometimes we have to learn through the school of hard knocks. so sorry for what u are having to experience, better luck next time.
2006-11-15 20:09:58 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get even. Go find the guy, call the cops, have him arrested and take him for everything he is worth. Make sure that you shatter his pride, let him know that it was you that screwed him over in the end. Don't let yourself be the victim :-) stay positive, and I am very sorry that you had to go threw with this. My mom went threw a similar situation. It sux, but with the right channels, justice will serve you in the matter :-)
2006-11-15 09:11:43 · answer #6 · answered by Nurse KeVo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry that happened to you. I honestly don't know what to tell you. My husband of three years called me one day while I was at work and told me that he was moving four hours away with another woman. His excuse was that he needed to "clear his head." He left me with no money, and everything in the world that I didn't know what to do with. But I will tell you that I cried and thought I was a piece of dung because he left me. But then, I woke up one day and realized that he wasn't crying over me and I would be damned if I was going to spend another day hurting over him. As of right now, it hurts me every now and then, but I am over him and I am definitely moving on with my life. Don't let this man control your life. Please move on. You are so much better than this.
2006-11-15 09:19:45 · answer #7 · answered by gapeach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do a whole lot right now but keep busy, time does heal, see a counselor, keep a journal to write down what you think and feel, it helps tremendously.
2006-11-15 09:11:53 · answer #8 · answered by nanny4hap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will heal over time. Learn from this. Change all banking info and have him charged.
2006-11-15 09:11:11 · answer #9 · answered by Jer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I went through something similar.We were only married only 5 months. It will take time but you'll be able to pull yourself though. I promise!
2006-11-15 09:13:50 · answer #10 · answered by Pamela V 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋