My husband doesn't know that I know but he has a memebership to Grooby.com. What is up with that? I went on to see what it was and was totally friggin shocked!! Do I confront him?
2006-11-15 00:33:01 · 17 answers · asked by confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
People too often confuse behavior with preference. Behaviorally, your husband may well be heterosexual. However, many people who have sex only with the opposite sex are bisexual by preference. These people enjoy looking at images of the same sex, and often fantasize about having sexual experiences with members of the same sex. Some work to fulfill their fantasies, but others do not. If your husband is behaviorally faithful to you, his sexual desires should be of no concern to you. If you "confront" him, with the anger you're implying you feel, you won't change his feelings, you'll just drive him to try harder to hide what he wants to look at, creating emotional distance between you. If you feel a need to talk about this issue, by all means, bring it up with him, but take the attitude that you are accepting of him and also curious and want to understand his desire to look at these images.
2006-11-15 00:40:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-07-18 21:22:45 · answer #2 · answered by Claudette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UM hello yes!!! but don't attack him! think about what your going to say first, write it down, or figure it out in your head. Be very calm and straight forward!! I would also do it ASAP. If he is into this, is he acting on it?? have you found anything else on the puter that is incriminating??? I would have all my ducks in a row before i did this. I think i would also put a filter on the puter prior to asking him so that you can know what he deleted out, and where exactly he is going! with the diseases that are around today, i wouldn't mess with waiting...to many things he can bring home that Ajax won't scrub off!! are there any other signs that he may be bisexual?? i would cover all my bases, and if you feel that this is going to cause a split between you 2 then i would get the filter and evidence before i confronted him. I personally think that if he is checking it out then he is either involved on line with someone, or is involved in person with others.I also wouldn't have unprotected sex with him either. good luck!!
2006-11-15 00:43:36 · answer #3 · answered by mizzcami 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i comprehend you in effortless terms choose men answering, yet omg do I relate to you like a hundred% i comprehend only the variety you experience. i'm getting looks and hollars each and every of the time, yet I too won weight because of the fact we've been mutually. i've got additionally struggled with bulimia for greater or less 9 years. What i've got discovered is that men are wayyy greater sexual than women human beings, and only because of the fact he's finding at porn, does no longer recommend he remains no longer interested in you. while you're actually not around, and he needs to get off, porn is a quickly worry-free way. additionally, each and every so often men only don't experience like having intercourse!
2016-10-15 14:01:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally would monitor it for a week or so and see what he's up to, check the history on your computer. then, yes, I would confront him but be prepared for him to lie to you and try to make it no big deal, hewill try to turn it around on you and make you feel guilty for looking to see what hes been up to, dont let him do that.
2006-11-15 00:55:30 · answer #5 · answered by yensenm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he likes to look at tranny porn. But that's not the same thing as going out and seeking other people to have sex with. It's like going "window shopping". He admires the pretty things, knows he can't have them, and keeps his hands to himself.
2006-11-15 01:02:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I stumbled upon some shocking things my husband did online as well. It kinda puts a knot in your tummy.
maybe bring up transexual stufff in a conversation and see how he reacts. if he acts all defensive or unusual, then you can say something to him
2006-11-15 00:39:08 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes! Obviously he is NOT straight and he may have if not already hooked up with sum1 that is a transexual which is cheating so you need to confront him about it right away!
2006-11-15 00:37:33 · answer #8 · answered by KokoCutie272006 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
H E L L yes I would confront him! BUT make sure you are prepared for the answer he may give you.
2006-11-15 00:35:06 · answer #9 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You have every right to confront him but, be cautious. You don't know what his answer is going to be, so be ready to expect the unexpected. Maybe he's just surfing, maybe he's truly interested, find out.
2006-11-15 00:40:58 · answer #10 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋