Me and the mother of my child has been together for 3 years we have seperated a couple times once being last april right after easter.we started talking in late july and decided to get back together. Later I found out she had three partners so we were fighting and stuff split up again in mid october. now we are talking again. I found out she was with a 28 year old married guy when we were seperated so she was lying again.also I got locked up for a couple months and she had no choice but to move in with her ex B/F's parents and I guess she slept with her ex while i was in jail .now she wants to work things out.also she became pregnant in late july and its between me the married guy and her ex.I still love her and do want to work it out but shes a hoe i guess would i ever be able to get over what shes done and will she be able to stop doin everyone when we decide to take a break.
2006-11-15 00:25:27 · 9 answers · asked by usa43113 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Talk to her frankly what you feel about her in a calm way.and leave her to take the decision.About mistakes ....i think you love her ,then you can forget all mistakes of her
2006-11-15 00:35:03 · answer #1 · answered by lini a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question!!! You will never be able to trust her. The other thing that bothers me is, the fact that you feel the need to take a break!! Most couples work it out with in the confines of the relationship, they don't separate and just screw anything that will hold still long enough. This relationship is doomed...IMHO you don't sound happy, or up about this woman in anyway. what do you see in her, why would you keep going back to be hurt again?? please make every effort to be in your child's life! but find a woman that is going to love you for YOU!! A good relationship doesn't have these way highs and way lows. It take 2 to work on a relationship. sounds to me as though she is stringing you along. Maybe I don't have enough information...did you ever cheat on her??? Also the fact that she moved in with ex's parents doesn't mean she needed to sleep with the ex. To me there are just so many things not right about this. Please let us know how it all worked out!!
2006-11-15 08:34:46 · answer #2 · answered by mizzcami 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are a fall back guy. She depends on you being their, and most of the time it sounds like you are.The most important thing should be your child together. not HER!!!!! You can do better than that and that is not a stable relationship for you, her, or your child. Think about what you said.......Will she be able to stop doing everyone, will you be able to get over what she has done???
Yes you will, WHEN YOU STOP GIVING IN TO HER AND MOVE ON!!!! A person can only do to you what you let them do...
You both fall back on each other, wouldn't you rather fall back on someone that you know will be their to catch you when you fall, instead of catching everyone else, and leaving you hang.....
Good luck,
DAPHNE
2006-11-15 08:37:32 · answer #3 · answered by Daphne F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two obviously do not work well as a couple or you wouldnt be breaking up all the time. I wouldnt get back with her. I would ask for a DNA test on the baby and take care of the child if its mine.
2006-11-15 08:38:42 · answer #4 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to be with a woman who can't keep her legs closed whenever you're not around ? Now, she is pregnant with the possibilities of 3 guys who could be the father. This is going the pattern for the future. You have to decide if this is the kind of future you really want with her.
2006-11-15 08:32:06 · answer #5 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't get over her if you continue to allow her to manipulate you. You will always be tied to her through your child, if the child is yours With her track record I would question this paternity. Stand up and end the emotional roller coaster.he will continue her behavior as long as you keep going back!
2006-11-15 08:30:11 · answer #6 · answered by starchild_kisschild 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a real whore. why don't you get back with her and pimp her out. You are always taking sloppy seconds and thirds so why not. As for the kid, if it is her x's kid then you could pull some money from that too. You are sitting on a gold mine man!
2006-11-15 08:32:28 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Right 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
parents yes,,partners no,,,,,,what kind of example are you setting your child,,do you want them thinking this is normal and when they too grow up emulate yours and the mothers relationship,,find someone stable and hope the same for her.
2006-11-15 09:01:33 · answer #8 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should just call it quits with her.
2006-11-15 08:35:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋