men and women, i am not dating ..yet i just wondered
2006-11-15 00:04:13 · 43 answers · asked by ? 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i have slept with people on first night and waited, i think society has changed and its not so frowned upon anymore if you do on the first night, where years ago you were a slag if you did, i just think if your ready and the attractions there go for it, if not then wait
2006-11-16 23:30:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it depends the 1st date can work and fail and 6months down the line can work and fail. its all whether its right for u, not just 4 him. my freinds did it on the 1st date and there happily married now but the other hand another friend waited till she was ready and that was approx 2years she waited to see if he was the 1 for her and i guess he was. like i said it all depends how u feel if u feel 100% ready then go for it if ur 99% sure then dont 1% is not good u need to be completley ready its a big step and u dont want to do it with the wrong guy/girl take care xxxx
2006-11-15 04:15:09 · answer #2 · answered by the one and only 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had sex on the second date, but never the first. Why? It wasn't really a dilemma of any sort, it just felt like the right thing to do. Was it the right thing to do? In my case, fortunately, yes. However, I'm certain that it's not the same for everyone.
2006-11-15 00:42:55 · answer #3 · answered by Weezy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to be honest, in the UK, I've alwasy found most people tend to have sex, then start dating. Now I'm not speaking for everyone, just the people I know, but dating really isn't that prevalent amongst us, unless you are internet dating. sounds like we're all a bunch of hos, but seriously it's something we've discussed quite a lot.
When I was 'dating' i waited about 3 weeks. which seemed like quite a long time... (he waited). yep, now I definitely sound like a ho..
2006-11-15 00:15:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Crampy is right and I agree with him totally.
I am an over the hill gal and have respect for those I date.
Sex is just sex but making love is a whole nother ball game-no puns intended.
Never push yourself or the other person-you'll know when the time is right. But do you want just sex or love making? That is the real question.
2006-11-15 00:22:27 · answer #5 · answered by dragon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2-3 a must to understand the opposite sex , at or 5 dates ,go for it
2006-11-15 00:07:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lol-- well, I say it depends on the date(the person). For me it is usually the 2/3rd date. If I like a girl though-- I tend to hold it out. If Im not bothered, It will happen sooner. Im not into first date sex--its a bit... ermm...TACKY.
2006-11-16 06:02:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
one good date should give you a lot of information about the person your dating. When you feel comfortable around them. Its a mistake to sleep with anyone after just one date no matter how attracted you are to them and vice versa. You don't respect yourself afterwards, they wont respect you either.the first time with a new partner should be built thought through thoroughly.
2006-11-15 02:40:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends... if you really like someone you might tend to wait a few dates and mayb plan for it with all the candles and romantic stuff.. if you just want to have fun then the first date is ok knowingthat you will not a get a call the next day......dont youhate that??? guys do that ... they never calll....lol
2006-11-15 00:44:37 · answer #9 · answered by mmm..whynot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had dated several girls once or twice, and not had sex if you count them or not.
My first sexual experience was with someone I had already dated about 4 or 5 times
2006-11-15 00:08:26 · answer #10 · answered by SeabourneFerriesLtd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on if you like them or not. Or how much you respect yourself. I didnt sleep with my lad till 2 months in the relationship, others i have sept with on a first date (one night stands).
2006-11-15 00:07:46 · answer #11 · answered by blueeyedblonde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋