I think i am but i can't be sure what are the signs?
2006-11-14 23:56:35 · 23 answers · asked by Schniz'n'Chiz 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If you have desires to be with women and NOT guys is a sure sign but if you can meet up with some Lesbians and sort of hang out with them you will soon know if you are or not.
What ever you do, don't push yourself. If you are a young person just enjoy life at the moment but if you are over 21 get information from local library etc. and again don't force it. Just learn and meet and learn some more. Being GLBT is NOT a choice and some come out later then others.
2006-11-15 00:11:07 · answer #1 · answered by dragon 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If it comes right down to it, does it really matter? If you're not sure, don't try to force yourself to choose, especially if you're only young. You shouldn't put that pressure on yourself.
Generally, if you're attracted to only women, then you can consider yourself a lesbian. But there's always the chance that you might find yourself redefining your perceptions at any time.
Personally, while I'm historically straight, I'd never say there isn't a guy who could make me swing the other way.
2006-11-15 08:49:26 · answer #2 · answered by Ramrider 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey first of all dont listen to the people who are being rude here, because theyre just ignorant. Feel sorry for them okay. Now Heres what I have to say - If you fancy women you are a lesbian - like if you have any feelings for them. If you like them. You might want to expirment a bit to see what gender u like - or if ur bi. Keep your chin up for me k? Ill keep you in MY prayers - and they wont be for you to turn straight. Your not a sinner. Love is Love - no matter whom it comes from. (as long as it is a legal relationship - mean both partners can consent and its not with a family memeber - i dont mean youd think that way but i dont want people gettin mad at me)
2006-11-15 10:01:01 · answer #3 · answered by Jimmi H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being attracted to women physically, probably also mentally. Being grossed out by boy bits! But then, I'm pretty sure I'm straight (not 100% sure, mind you) and I've also been attracted to women and grossed out by boy bits :P I think maybe you just have to give it a try. There won't be any harm that'll come out of it, as long as you're honest with yourself ...and don't feel guilty about using someone as a 'tester' i suppose!
2006-11-15 09:11:53 · answer #4 · answered by lady_s_hazy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are only attracted to women, and not to men, then I would have to say you are a lesbian.
I don't know how old you are, but, when you are young, and you hear so much negative in the world (the hatred directed towards gays), sometimes it's hard, even confusing, to accept who you are and feel comfortable with yourself.
don't listen to the bigots that I see have posted their usual "read the Bible/find a man" garbage on this page. only YOU know who you are, and you should just be yourself!
2006-11-15 09:01:20 · answer #5 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Another sign is if you have crushes on women. I had major crushes on women I thought were cool in highschool, and its only looking back that i realised its cos I'm gay. I still laugh about how crazy I was about some women and never realised it.
2006-11-15 09:23:32 · answer #6 · answered by littleponypony 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1.You are attracted enough to women that you could imagine having sex with them.
2. You excessively enjoy the company of a woman. (i.e. you could think of one in particular right now that you want to be with.)
There are more but these are the basics.
2006-11-15 12:40:23 · answer #7 · answered by U2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you fing yourself attracted to a female then you could like females. If you also like males then you could be bisexual but if you feel like males are not for you then you are a lesbian honey.
2006-11-15 12:39:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you'd like to be with women and not men, you're a lesbian.
2006-11-15 08:05:04 · answer #9 · answered by carora13 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry too much about it. According to amber, we're all straight! See her post below...
Dont you poor souls know that your all straight?
i will keep praying for your wretched selves to come out and praise the lord and leave that icky life behind
2006-11-16 06:48:27 · answer #10 · answered by Eat At The Y 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋