But she was raped like 2 weeks ago and now she’s totally afraid of men. Like she wont even talk to me or if I get to close to her she like gets all tense and acts like a b*tch. She didn’t tell anyone she was raped except a couple friends and I heard this from them. Is there anyway I can get her to not be afraid of men?
2006-11-14 23:16:15 · 4 answers · asked by TheMaster 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
If you really like her then you should understand that after only 2 weeks the last thing on her mind will be men! Just be her friend as thats what she needs at the moment, it will take a long time for her to trust you (and men in general) again. Do not even mention relationships or sex to her until she mentions it first. If you truly like her, you'll have to wait a long time, but she should be worth the wait if your feelings are real!
2006-11-14 23:21:08 · answer #1 · answered by Carl E 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it just happened 2 weeks ago, she's still dealing with it, and likely will be for a long time. If you really care about this girl, back off. She's been through hell. Send her a card or something, and tell her you're there when she needs you, and let her make the first move when she's ready. As to the fear, she may never recover from that.
2006-11-15 07:22:34 · answer #2 · answered by shojo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her tell you that she was raped and if she dosn't tell you then it's not true most women ack like bitches when they around men they like
2006-11-15 07:45:08 · answer #3 · answered by Callie Haven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does any1 kip secrets any mo! anyway jus be there 4 her n preferably dont let her kno u know wat happened 2 her.
2006-11-15 07:24:04 · answer #4 · answered by Another face in the crowd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋