I was in a car accident and gained 84 lbs.
The weight was Steroid induced and it ruined my metabolic rate .
All I was able to take off was 13lbs of it .I am a really lovable ,kind confident and not Bad looking guy ,
Why won`t you girls give me a chance.?
2006-11-14 23:15:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
We all have different likes and things we find attractive. If a girl is strictly casting judgement on weight alone...then you are better off without them.
There is alot to be optimistic about.
There are plenty of fish in the sea.
Many of them like big guys.
Sometimes we just have a harder time getting noticed initially...(even if we are easier to see) :o)
Be good, kind and funny.
Hang in there buddy. You'll find yours...
2006-11-14 23:34:45 · answer #1 · answered by Randal D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In our society "thin is in ". I think it is a ridiculous slogan. I am the opposite of you you. I was large (2X) after a serious accident and within 4 months lost a lot of weight 59 lbs. I am now and have been for a year a size.10..I am a woman and I certainly see the difference in how I am treated...... But skinny or fat I am still the same person!!!
I have an obese friend and she found a "Big is Beautiful Club/Group" on line ..... Check them out! Good Luck!
2006-11-14 23:59:03 · answer #2 · answered by Bella Donna 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will find true love when you meet the right person. Obese people are beautiful, as beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Maybe look for an obese woman who is lovable, kind, confident, and pretty. She will return all that you have to offer.
2006-11-14 23:31:56 · answer #3 · answered by phantom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go sit at the mall and look at the people there. You'll see obese men with thin women, and vice versa. So your statement isn't accurate. A relationship needs to be based on what's inside, not what a person looks like on the outside. However, you can't just approach any woman and expect them to fall all over you. They need to get to know you first. Hang in there. Someone will come along for you. Good luck.
2006-11-14 23:54:38 · answer #4 · answered by Blondie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The same reason a lot of guys don't give girls who are overweight a chance.
It is amazing...when I weighed 156 pounds at 5'6" guys wouldn't give me the time of day. Now that I have lost 25 pounds I get asked on dates all the time.
However, I have found that people that only see the outside are not worth it. We all have our faults, some of us just have those on the outside rather than the inside.
2006-11-14 23:19:27 · answer #5 · answered by Barbara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls wont go out with fatsos for a couple reasons...no girl wants some fat sweaty out of shape slob pumping them and everyone knows fat men cant wipe their own asses.
You are going to have a heart attack, time to quit crying about your metabolism and accident and time to get to the gym and a regimented eating program. Join the local YMCA or a gym. This is a problem you don't want for the rest of your life...you can beat this friend.
Good Luck!
2006-11-15 00:41:52 · answer #6 · answered by uzurhead 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because we live in a society that is really screwed up. since we were little every thing has revolved around the thin. but there is hope, there are a handful of young women out there there that see past the external. personally i took me until i was in my 30's before i stopped looking at people that way. now that iam older and single i see people in a whole different way. i actually see them for who they are and not what they look like. i look for personality not looks. good luck friend, i have a son that is overweight and it scares the hell out of me, for his health. but he has the same problem and as his mother iam hurt he is a great person.
2006-11-14 23:22:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
for the same reasons guys don't like fat girls.this is a chance for you to find the right girl.she won't know that you are big because of meds and she won't know that you will probably slim back down so if you find a girl who loves you now,the way you are then you've found a gem.You are looking at a certain type of girl only and this should open your eyes to different types of women as well,have you considered a big girl ?probably not so ask your self the same question.
2006-11-14 23:23:41 · answer #8 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately the first thing that someone sees is the body and won't go much further. That is life I'm afraid.
However, if you can make friends with the women first and they get to know you, they won't care what you look like.
2006-11-14 23:17:41 · answer #9 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
idk. It seems pretty sad. Anyway if they can't handle you gaining a few pounds by a car accident, they aren't decent people/ girls. If they really liked you they would care less. I could care less if my guy was a little bigger than the others. Anyway if you were in a car acident it's not your fault. Good luck!! don't go after some girl who doens't apricate all acspects of you!
2006-11-14 23:24:47 · answer #10 · answered by Ellie j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋