I had a fight with my husband this morning because he wants to go on a trip to another country alone ..He was upset and we argues and then he left home ..later he called and invited me to go out to a restaurant for lunch but he was not very happy when we were out like he was still upset..what shall i do now?
shall I show him some love and care and ask him to forget that we fought?
2006-11-14 23:07:19 · 11 answers · asked by fallingprincess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, this time, but if it this situation happens often, have a talk with your jusband and tell him that marriage is 50/50. Both people have to compromise on things.
2006-11-14 23:11:21 · answer #1 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but it doesn't sound like you have much of a marriage if you are here asking questions. Marriage is an open partnership and if you can't talk to him about things, what hope have you got. You need to resolve the situation, not ask him to forget that you fought.
2006-11-15 07:11:01 · answer #2 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him why you were upset, and maybe you might like to go with him. I understand why your upset and he should too. Tell him your concerns, and if he stays mad then suggest counselling for the both of you, because wanting to leave the country on a vacation alone is not normal when you have a spouse.
2006-11-15 07:10:28 · answer #3 · answered by Jer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a difficult situation since he was the one to cause the diturbance due to his decision to travel alone. But as you finally accepted his decision, I would say you should speak to him and tell him you do not want him to leave upset under any circumstances because your love for him is so great and that this is exactly the reason why you wanted to accompany him.
2006-11-15 07:10:29 · answer #4 · answered by rinah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the situation is resolved sure...but don't apologize just to get mad all over again when the subject comes up. Tell him you'd like to talk about his plans and get it out in the open.
2006-11-15 07:26:57 · answer #5 · answered by BB'sMom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you show him love and care when he is angry and going to go overseas without you. It sounds like you haven't resolved the problems yet and you need answers for yourself. Why are men so selfish? lol
2006-11-15 07:12:29 · answer #6 · answered by friendly face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find out the real reason for this trip and why you should'nt go with him 1 if, it's supposed ( business )...why not let him go .....if it's just for fun ...you need to find out why !!!
Are you jealous or do you have a sneaking suspicion ...he's cheatin' !
2006-11-15 07:16:35 · answer #7 · answered by Jo Jo Gunn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl i would show him the door if he wanted to go somewhere like that without me!
2006-11-15 11:49:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yess...but B4 that...do u know y he wanted to be alone? if there is no special reason ..then that's ok..show him care and love... in addition he called u himself so i think better u show him ur love and care...hey GO0D LUCK ;)
2006-11-15 07:11:20 · answer #9 · answered by Mahsak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show him some love,and then ask questions.
2006-11-15 07:28:59 · answer #10 · answered by Nana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋