look at this link
it is a study...look at the taple compare man and woman
you will find that man interest in sex more and desire woman more and search for beauty and attractiveness in his partener unlike women which attractive man for her is who have money and good socila status
man look at the human in his partener"look at her body and soul"
woman look at man's money ,power...etc but the human himself"body and soul"is the last thing woman look at
ladies, are you so bad to that limit , we love you alot because God createdd us like that
but why you think like that? is that because we are not sexy , curvy , cute , soft like you?
are you really dont look at us or our body and look only at what we give you and what you optain from us such as money,power,security,children,love,caring....etc but we ourselves are not attractive and desireable for you?
2006-11-14
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➔ Gender Studies
I am not shocked by this at all. Just look into society and you see many examples of this. I however, do not find myself in this category, I do not look at a mans social status, for I have my own, I do not look at his income, I have my own. As long as he is responsible and has a income is good enough for me. A man's character, personality (soul) is an important factor for me personally. Sex for me is always has been a important factor in my relationships. However, I have found this to be true with many female friends, they have thought me strange in my ideas. I feel that this study may have been somewhat bias, not all women are after a paycheck and social status. For many women have this on their own and are seeking a partner for life with the same qualifications as the men are seeking. God Bless*
2006-11-14 23:08:22
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answered by ? 7
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Mate vs lover variance aside, the study was rather supported by the ethnographic evidence. With apologies to the ladies, we can not be sure of women's self reports, so we back them with ethnographic data. For instance; it was predicted by evolutionary biologists that woman would have a evolutionary preference for males taller than themselves. ( cause not important here ) The surveys went out and women' self reports came in with a wide variance in response, with a much greater proportion of women answering that they would go out with and marry shorter men than had been predicted. The ethnographic data consulted showed the real findings. Woman go out with and marry men who are taller than they are by about 3 inches, on average. The converse position is exceedingly rare. It is surmised that woman who self report wish to put a socially acceptable response down, but this is conjecture. Th moral is; always look to the numbers and do not depend on what people say about themselves.
2006-11-15 17:42:49
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answered by Anonymous
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Women are looking to be with a man's body and to have sex with him, but...They are reacting to their natural instincts. Subconsciously, she wants to see if a man is capable of supporting a family. (even if she's fully capable of supporting herself. It doesn't matter) She is the one who might potentially have children with him. She is the one who will go through the pain of labor in the hospital room, not him. And she no matter if the man stays or not, will take care of her kids for the rest of her life. We men react by our sexual instinct to procreate and spread our genes. Women feel desire, too, but have a LOT more on the line, if they choose the wrong guy.
2006-11-16 13:29:27
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answered by Daemon 4
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sorry butt it is deffently 1 of the 1st things that would attract me money and power and for most girl yeh it would be too some lie and say now but with 1st attraction for def obviously this cant last for a long time and with in time a women is go in to have to look for something deeper other wise she will get bored but yeah if there was a rich guy with alto of power and a tramp i would get to know the rich one sorry 1st impression count uno x
2006-11-15 07:16:52
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answered by .x.expensive.x 2
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No, this is only partially true..
Women do indeed look at wealth / power / charisma as a significant component of the package while men do not but it cannot be said that women do not find some men more physically desireable than others....Hence meaning women do find men physically desirable.
2006-11-15 11:24:17
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answered by Anonymous
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I wouldn't overgeneralize, but there are a lot of women who are mainly interested in a man's money and influence, and don't care what he looks like, as long as he pays her bills.
In America, we call these women "Golddiggers".
On the other hand, there are some women who are mainly interested in a man that they find sexually attractive, and who aren't as concerned about his income, so they're not all just in it for the money
2006-11-15 08:34:27
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answered by Anonymous
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When I met my husband I was attracted by his humor and he ALWAYS smelled SO GOOD!!!!!! Money was not an issue, neither one of us are rich, then or now.
2006-11-15 19:29:56
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answered by lee lee 3
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money, power, security are sexy & = children
2006-11-15 10:05:25
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answered by mstrywmn 7
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