it will be the first time for me to stay with english person on xmas.
so i dont know what to do for him or what to give on that day.
even though i am buddhist ( i am asian), we celebrate xmas in my country.
but i never celebrate with christian person, so i have no idea.
i want to make my boyfriend terry happy.
i really love him so much.
what should i do ?
2006-11-14 22:55:37 · 17 answers · asked by ★japanese lady★ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i dont give up on being buddist.
most people in my country ( japan ) believe in buddhist.
but we celebrate xmas.
i wonder why.
i think we are not that strong buddhist.
2006-11-14 23:16:37 · update #1
A traditional British Christmas involves maxing the credit cards buying lots of unnecessary presents for people you don't like, buying lots of unhealthy food which is then either undercooked and causes salmonella poisoning or overcooked and elicits unwelcome advice from his mother, the rest of the family then all fall asleep until some poor hostess has done all the washing up, before waking up in a bad mood to drink sufficient alcohol to cause the family equivalent of World War III before someone is arrested and dragged off to the cells. Why would you want to give up your peaceful Buddhist way of life to join in such a debacle?
2006-11-14 23:06:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
A traditional Christmas punch... boiled red wine with clove sticks... is good... make sure you duddle alot and do a lot of kissing under the misletoe.... Make sure you find a really sweet gift that lets him know how much you care...
2006-11-14 22:58:22 · answer #2 · answered by schenzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lovely framed photo of you or both of you and we all love a box of chocolates. hope you enjoy your xmas and you feel the spiritual message behind the commercial glitter. have a great festive season..ps be prepared for family squabbles and tiffs don't get involved or take sides
2006-11-15 01:04:24 · answer #3 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not hard. Just give him a gift from your heart. Whatever you think he'll like. Sit back and observe his family and they're traditions without saying, "back in my country we do this or that." They'll love you, don't be worried.
2006-11-14 22:58:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find something he would really like for christmas morning, whether its CD's, DVDs, comp games and surprise him. ask him sly questions so you can suss out what he wants then buy it and he will be surprised on xmas morning! thats what I do. wrap up wee goodie bag for him, fill it with chocolate santa, smelly stuff too etc. happy shopping.....
2006-11-14 23:00:15 · answer #5 · answered by BLONDESHELL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait... How do you already know he has ordered something for you??!! i could say your boyfriend does no longer appreciate you, and that's no longer good. What does a latest after yule mean to you?!!
2016-10-03 23:49:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to www.maplins.co.uk and look in toys. Id love an indoor helicopter to play with.
2006-11-14 23:27:00 · answer #7 · answered by smutmonkey71 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make appointments for the both of you to get massages- then after yo uget the massages, you will have learned some techniques to use for yourself
2006-11-14 23:16:52 · answer #8 · answered by spointless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of that annoying, little dog for a while...he'll love you until it returns!
2006-11-14 22:58:10 · answer #9 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him a present and have a really nice dinner.
2006-11-14 22:57:12 · answer #10 · answered by just browsin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋