Does it bother you?
I keep asking my partner not too, but he carrys on
2006-11-14 22:02:06 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
We do have a very good sex lifew still :0)
I have asked to watch it together but he doesnt like the idea I think he is embaraased hmm
2006-11-14 22:23:35 · update #1
I had that prob with my bf. its hard. i said i dont like him ogling other women because i think its turns him on. but its not the person that turns him on its what their doing!! watch it with him and he'll realise it has a more positive effect if your next to him rather than if hes on his own. you can be part of it. good luck! x
2006-11-14 22:05:20 · answer #1 · answered by ms_jaffa_cake 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Common Sense, huh. It seems you have little. The wise woman is the one who doesn't get involved with a guy who will watch porn at all. If it isn't affecting your sex-life (and your relationship) today, it will tomorrow...it's just a matter of time. Guys who watch that stuff with any regularity need to get help. It's an addiction just like drugs, and it can start to run your life in the same way too.
...or just wait until your relationship is over. That'll solve the problem too, won't it.
2006-11-15 12:02:18 · answer #2 · answered by fishman 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All men like to knock one out every now and then i think we are biologically compelled to, any man who says he doesn't is a liar. What you need to ask yourself is. What do you prefer? Your boyfriend spanking the monkey to a stranger on a video or fantasising about someone at work an old girlfriend or one of your mates. You should join in. If you do something dirty like the girls in the films he'll start thinking about you and not anyone else. I once stayed with girl for months longer than i wanted to just because she was dirty as hell in the bedroom
2006-11-15 06:23:27 · answer #3 · answered by Paul E 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
O.K. why would he or any fairly normal (and I'm guessing) young man prefer to watch alone when given the chance to share it with the one he ( and I'm guessing) supposedly loves........He Carries On??What does that mean exactly. Do you keep finding him alone with his hobby or does he close the door after he excuses you? Something just doesn't sound (right,sincere,loving,considerate,..........you don't feel that nagging little tug of your gut when this happens? I think that sinking feeling is all the answer you need. I hope you don't have to struggle with this much longer. good luck
2006-11-16 07:20:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men enjoy porn..
Most women do not enjoy porn..
It is the nature of the beast.
Wise women make an effort to be with
and watch porn with their men...
He may be uncomfortable with it at first because
he may fear criticism over his fantasies but the woman
must take anything & everything in stride and understand
that they are simply fantasies & exciting images...
Just because he may look at some porn that involves situations & activities you find repugnant, does not mean he would ever
actually participate in them himself or ask you to do so.
You have the right idea....Get involved in his porn watching...
2006-11-15 11:30:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it is bothering you that is enough of a reason for your partner not to. If he can't stop he has a problem and needs help. If he wont stop then he doesnt have enough respect for you and you need to find someone who does.
2006-11-15 13:59:37 · answer #6 · answered by Question Addict 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you tell him not to he might not understand so use the reverse phsicology method where you watch it before he can get to it. Its like before he wants to wacth you invite him . Most probably he will ask about your change . Tell him you enjoy watching it for some reason which he might not agree
2006-11-15 06:12:58 · answer #7 · answered by gk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-16 05:46:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess some guys are born with the natural instinct of wanting to watch porn... it depends.. well try approaching with another way..not by direct of asking him to stop watching it..take it step by step... sometimes when you know he's going to watch it, try diverting his attention by asking him to watch a movie with you?..perhaps just a late supper?...as time passes, he will realise that you're his number one importance and porn matters no more to him...it takes time...as we say "rome wasn't built in a day"
2006-11-15 06:08:04 · answer #9 · answered by tata bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesn't bother me at all - in fact my parner and i enjoy watching it together. Ask your partner if you can watch one together, you may find that you enjoy it together and it could spice up your sex life!
2006-11-15 06:04:49 · answer #10 · answered by Bluebell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋