I have been bestfriends with this guy for almost two years now. I had a crush on him before we were friends and slowly we became friends and i told him that i liked him, but he said he didnt like me in that way. Now about a year after that we are very close and talk about almost everything and spend a lot of time together. I have very strong feelings for him and I love him so much, i know he loves me too(we often say "i love you" to each other), but i dont know if he loves me in "that way"...what should i do? I've already tried once and failed and we became even better friends...could his feelings have changed since then (it was like a year ago)? and i dont want to come right out and just tell him about my feelings for him...please help!
2006-11-14 21:13:58 · 9 answers · asked by ~lovelovelove~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am a girl and i have been bestfriends with this guy for almost two years now. I had a crush on him before we were friends and slowly we became friends and i told him that i liked him, but he said he didnt like me in that way. Now about a year after that we are very close and talk about almost everything and spend a lot of time together. I have very strong feelings for him and I love him so much, i know he loves me too(we often say "i love you" to each other), but i dont know if he loves me in "that way"...what should i do? I've already tried once and failed and we became even better friends...could his feelings have changed since then (it was like a year ago)? and i dont want to come right out and just tell him about my feelings for him...please help
2006-11-14 21:23:26 · update #1
Well, you can show him that you still love and take care of him with out telling him directly. So try by different actions and use the opportunties to express you love for him again not directly.
Then see if there is any change. He may fall into you don't give up.
2006-11-14 21:21:24 · answer #1 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him drunk and take advantage of him! No, just kidding...the best advice I can give you is to judge the value of your friendship by what you derive from being his friend. If what he gets is more or less the same as what you get, you probably have a pretty sound 'friendship'. If you feel as if you're giving more than you're getting and that means feeling 'used', I'd say you need to open up and offer what it is you have for what it is you want. If it's rebuffed, then you have your answer and you can move on with your life...or, you can take the initial statement seriously!!!
2006-11-15 05:18:18 · answer #2 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is really love u, i love someone, n he love me too, but i just wanna him to be my very very close friend rather than bf, because i believe that friendship is FOREVER, but if become b/g f, the relationship may break one day, n ... maybe ur bf hv the same feeling as me, he maybe afraid of losting u, so he...
maybe u can ask him that u gona introduce a girl for him, n see hows his answer
2006-11-15 05:36:07 · answer #3 · answered by mmm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two choices - come out and ask him. He's the only one who can tell you about his feelings. Or, just stop thinking about it because it probably won't happen.
Good luck!
2006-11-15 05:17:40 · answer #4 · answered by justwebbrowsing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you have a best friend the relationship is like a sister/brother relationship.my best friend wanted to date.I told him I love him as a brother and things would be weird between us.
2006-11-15 06:37:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he shares all his feelings with u , so ask him whether he likes some one or not .or wait may be he comes and says to u!let it happen whatever is happpening.good luck!
2006-11-15 05:54:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
good luck when u find out what to do plz email me and tell me x
2006-11-15 05:18:14 · answer #7 · answered by its blitz in uk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just love him the way he loves you! or make him to love you Not with chat but with your actions. BE AS HE PREFER TO BE HER ''GIRLFRIEND''. BE SEXY. I WISH YOU THE BEST!! ;-)
2006-11-15 05:49:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He has no girlfriend? then tell him how you feel
2006-11-15 05:26:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋