Never allow spomeone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option.
I think it applies to me a lot but i just wanted to know if others feel it applies to them aswell and if anyone has any good sayings let me know!
2006-11-14 20:52:03 · 6 answers · asked by Doodles 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Your thoughts are good in one dimension, however there is another side of the coin -
'the one who I give priority need not give me priority always - this applies when the other person is much elevated to me or if I need to learn / acquire certain things from them. Eg - For me in the class my priority is my teacher because learning is my priority, but for teacher i am only an option out of so many students, but this relation is not going to hurt me becoz i understand the situation.
I appreciate your feelings in the direction that we should not emotionally stick to someone - because i am just remembering the caption ''if you give your heart to someone they may break it - so give it to god and get it strenghtened'
Also, if i am enjoying the praising of some one then it means that I can be easily hurt by insults.
2006-11-14 21:14:42 · answer #1 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah , it has applies to relationships that I have been in the past.
You just have to decide what you want out of your life and relationship.. I finally realized I wasn't going to wait around and see if someone else was going to allow me in their life. If it is a choice between myself and another person...I'll make that choice on my own. I will never be second best in a relationship again!!
2006-11-15 05:06:27 · answer #2 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me it is a case to case basis. if someone needs help very badly and i can help, i will without expecting something in return.
but if beforehand i know the person to be just a waste of time then i won't.
2006-11-15 05:06:50 · answer #3 · answered by Rolly r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never put anyone b4 urself ,especially if they won't do the same 4 u!!!
2006-11-15 04:57:54 · answer #4 · answered by pepa32mann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it does happen but hes my option. im his priority
2006-11-15 05:12:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good advice. It means that you shouldn't be emotionally attached to someone who is not emotionally attached to you.
2006-11-15 05:01:12 · answer #6 · answered by devil's advocate 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋