Am crazy about this guy and we have a beautiful friendship and l feel like if l tell him about my feelings maybe l will lose him and lose the friendship.Things are normal everytime he comes but l want more of him and dont have the chance how can l fight for him especially that we havent talked about it and that we are gud friends. l see him everyday cause he comes to the office everyday we laugh make jokes we are a gud team but the look in his eyes turn me apart. what can l do to make things work between us pliz help cant stop thinking about him and cant tell him.
2006-11-14 20:49:32 · 7 answers · asked by caroline 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
weel..I think if he is gud. If you want more than friendship, then you shud. Ask him to play in the mud. Go out and drink some Bud. Really!
2006-11-14 20:55:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best relationships are those who were friends to begin with and it just blossomed into something more. That was what happened to me.We have now been married for 16 years.If you don't give it a try you will never know.You will always regret it.Just be brave and honest with him.If doesn't feel the same way you still have each other as friends.Take Care xx
2006-11-14 22:24:17 · answer #2 · answered by TG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See I don't really know how to go about giving you an answer cos I don't know whether u have my kinda heart.people think differently u know..?.I advice u to be patient enough to let him start cos if u go start telling him ur feelings,he might think that u're forcing.I think if he really feels 4 u the way u do,he'll be Man enough to tell u.
On the other hand,Someone once said that Love that is not expressed is dead love,so it actually depends on the situation.If both of u r in a b/f,g/f relationship,I advice u to let him know how much u feel about him.All I'm saying is u should let him come at u first,or he 'might' take advantage of d whole thing.You can do some other things to tell him how u really feel.A good card will do..!
2006-11-14 21:26:30 · answer #3 · answered by blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much of a 'friend' if you can't be honest with him...sounds to me more like you want him, don't really think he wants you in the same way and are terribly afraid you'll lose the only connection to him you have if you spill your emotional guts! What's the difference? You're tearing yourself to shreds as it is; the worst thing that can happen is he tells you he feels the same way...
2006-11-14 20:57:33 · answer #4 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its better to loves and loose than to never love at all...in other words....maybe go for it.....is it not better to see if there is love there...or spend years wondering if.....especially if in years to come you do pluck up the courage and then regret waisting all this time not doing anything about it...be straight forward.....keep it simple.....to start with find out if he has a partner....obviously if he is already taken dont be the one to break it!!!!
2006-11-14 20:55:27 · answer #5 · answered by michael s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i no how u feel i had that same relationship ! i loved this one guy but he was like a best friend i asked him out and he said yes but wat u have to do is make sure he feels the same way first chat too him online ior with a cell phone first then ask the question
2006-11-14 20:53:08 · answer #6 · answered by baby sun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first if you like him flirt with him if he flirts back then clearly he likes you to and tell him how you feel about him even if you are friends i had the same trouble with me and my mate now we are a couple
2006-11-14 20:54:23 · answer #7 · answered by beci 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋