Atleast for 2 years. will it be safe to have any contraceptive pills.
or any other way of birth control..
2006-11-14 20:41:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Yes , its called a condom if you don't like those then sorry cause birth controll isn't always safe either i suggest you pull out and not shoot it on the vagina
2006-11-14 20:56:36 · answer #1 · answered by Mommy to be!!! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, it's up to her if she wants to take a hormonal BC, as it is her body which could pay the consequences later down the road. Some birth controls work beautifully in one woman's body (limited or no side affects) and in another, she can become very messed up (getting every side affect possible!)
I suggest if she wishes to take a BC that she sees her gynocologist to see what would be best suited for her and her body and then make an informed decision.
If you choose not to use a hormonal birth control, you have the option of condoms (male or female ones), spermacides, diaphragm with spermacide and a few others. There is also the option of "natural family planning" which involves a lot of work to find out when her most fertile days are by charting her body's 'symptoms' such as cervical mucus, basal body temperature, using ovulation predictor sticks, etc, and then AVOIDING sex on those days. (this works best if her cycles are fairly regular, btw) You could be going without sex for about a week (or you can of course take precautions on those days with condoms and spermacide or whatever your choice is). If done correctly, this CAN be just as effective as taking a birth control pill, but without jeapordizing fertility, so can be worth the work it takes.
I hope this information is helpful in your decision!
2006-11-15 08:48:53 · answer #2 · answered by BraidyLocks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with getting pregnant right away after marriage. Babies only throw off the mix if you aren't ready. So if you feel you aren't ready I suggest birth control like condoms. Too many women I know where on birth control and had ALOT of trouble getting pregnant later. But talk with your soon to be wife also. See how she feels. She may want a child very soon. make sure you both see eye to eye. And then she can talk to her doctor of what might be best for her.
2006-11-15 04:53:55 · answer #3 · answered by suagr_britches 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No contraceptive give 100% guarantee.
First and foremost, you should get this discussed with your partner and come out with a unanimous decision..
Having a baby is already written in your destiny. sometimes
a mishap could happen no matter whatever precaution you take. Now if you defy your destiny then don't have sex at all.
2006-11-15 05:31:39 · answer #4 · answered by JJ2812 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that is a really good idea..to wait to have babies.. You need to establish your marriage before you throw babies into the mix. There are a lot of contraceptives available...I.U.D., spermicides,nuvaring,depo shot, pills of course and last but not least condoms. Make sure that the two of you are on the same page about a time line to start your family. Communication is key to not wrecking a wonderful relationship.
Best of luck to you and your fiance!!
2006-11-15 04:46:25 · answer #5 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you haven't discussed this with her then you better. If she does not agree you should call off the wedding. Most people get married so they can have a safe and balanced enviroment to bring up children.
When you don't discuss this important issue with her how can you discuss anything else?
2006-11-15 05:07:32 · answer #6 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are pros and cons of everything and are birth controls.
but remember no contraceptive mthod is 100% effective.
so choose whatever is suitable for you'll. but sometimes contraceptive drugs causes infertility , rare cases though!
so i would say the condom is the best way!!
but still its all up to you to choose!!
2006-11-15 04:55:12 · answer #7 · answered by pinkcloud2015 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you need to talk to her and tell her how you fell and set down and discuss this to gather i am getting married in may we have discussed every thing and i got pregnant some times it just happens when you are ready or not
2006-11-15 04:55:21 · answer #8 · answered by GINA D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pills are safe, but you can use condoms during the fertile peorid and enjoy x without during safe days. ( one week after and one week before her periods are safe )
2006-11-15 04:47:34 · answer #9 · answered by StraightFromTheHorse'sMouth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
birth control pills have serious side effects. I would use bith control cream
2006-11-15 04:44:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋