How would you react if your husband's friend made a comment about you being in love w another friend?

Question

One of my husband's friends made a comment about me being in love w another one of our friends in front of my husband and I. I asked my husband about it later wondering what his comment was about it - he said he had no idea but he was probably joking. I think it's weird for anyone talking about me or anyone else who is married like that. Should I confront his friend?

Just to clarify - I am not in love with our friend. I was also surprised that my husband didn't say anything to our friend but I wouldn't be surprised if he wasn't paying attention. I have no problems w my husband. I am offended that my husband's friend made this comment though - I think it's rude and he shouldn't talk that way about me.

Answer 1

try to ask or to talk with him professionally

Answer 2

Hi my friend, I realize your problem. In your problem, your reaction should not be calm. Because If you You & your husband having perfect understanding, Your spouse should objected that teasing, But I think he failed to do that. Ok you don't want worry, but you should talk personally and openly with your spouse and explain your opinion. Only both of U can solve the problem with unity, You can't solve it alone. Thank You.

- Shivo storm

Answer 3

some young people try to make fun by say something never happen, be friendly with him and gentle ask him, don't show your anger, it's most important is your husband did not believe what he joked, and trust you is more important, should confront his friend and ask friendly way. the more he jokes, the more you laugh and he will get bored and stop talking nonsense to tease you

Answer 4

It is highly improper. Your husband should not have taken it so coolly. Yes, of course confront him and be assertive, but first make sure that what he said is NOT true.