i just broke up with my boyfriend but i still love him very much and i cant help myself stop thinking about him help please..
2006-11-14 19:35:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
start thinking about me and you will quickly forget about him!
2006-11-14 19:42:52 · answer #1 · answered by Lou S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH NO...I'm really sorry. I've been having major guy problems too, and I didn't even go out with the guy! I'm unable to get over a guy who I thought felt the same way about me, so I can't even imagine how bad it must be to have been in a relationship and still loving him. Don't force yourself to get over him. You'll go through phases, and you may not get over it anytime soon, but you'll get used to it. But if you feel he may still love you, try it again. But give yourself the time to think about him and cry if you have to. It's not bad; you'll slowly get used to it, even if it seems like the end of the world. I know you probably don't want to hear this, but it's the best way to deal with this. Hope you're doing okay.
2006-11-15 03:47:27 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is universal.
We all have somone that we love yet can't be with.
It will take time. It is so important that you don't let your feelings take you back to him if there was a reason you broke up with him.
You need to grieve the loss. Then get busy with other things. And move on. There will be someone else.
Hang in there.
2006-11-15 03:40:22 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry sweetie that you broke up...
but are you sure that the feeling you are having are'nt just lonelyness? I've broken up with a few guys and it really hurts for a while, but my savers were my friends.
Go out, and meet friends...go to the mall....go for a drink(if your older than 21)...make fun...and you'll see that your not alone.
But if you really love him than you might try to save the relationship...
2006-11-15 03:42:10 · answer #4 · answered by Thelma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard to believe right now, but you do get over it. It'll take time, but it will happen. Can you afford to go away on a trip for a while? that would help. Break your routine. Try not to go to places or do things that have memories for you.
Good luck.
2006-11-15 03:39:22 · answer #5 · answered by ladybird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't rush yourself... it'll take some time considering the weight of your emotions for him....
just learn to enjoy being alone first... make peace with the fact that you'll still miss him because it's natural to do so...by and by time will fog the emotions you have for him...
2006-11-15 03:41:29 · answer #6 · answered by peanut butter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's natural. But please don't push yourself into rush. Time will come the wounds are heal but you should help yourself first and i assure you, you can get over the pain. Try something new that make you happy.
2006-11-15 03:50:37 · answer #7 · answered by rainbow_rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow in love with next available boy.
2006-11-15 03:40:18 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Keep busy. Join clubs. You will meet other people and every day it will get a little bit easier.
2006-11-15 03:39:54 · answer #9 · answered by salsera 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to find someone else, otherwise you won't get over him!!!!! I hope you have enough faith in yourself. Just make sure you eat and sleep, don't make yourself sick. From girl to girl, don't sweat him and maybe he'll start missing you.
2006-11-15 03:40:54 · answer #10 · answered by None 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont fall out of love that easily it takes a lot of time but it will happen slowly
2006-11-15 04:15:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋