We broke up 3 months ago. We work together so i have to see her every day!! It hurts like hell!! I miss her so much but our relationship was very bad towards the end. She is rude to everyone something that i hate about a person, i did love her but at the end i wanted our relationship to end too. I have been fine for 3 months and she has now met someone else and brags about the good sex that she is having and i feel so hurt and want her back! I cant sleep and cant eat! why do i feel so bad when i know deep down that we are incompatable?
2006-11-14 19:16:22 · 10 answers · asked by nine_ball_tattoo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I feel your pain..It's happened to me in the past and there is no easy way through it.. It's going to hurt like hell for a little while but definitely not forever.. I promise you.. The last thing you want to do is try to get her back!! The fact that you already know that you two aren't compatible should keep you away from her.. The best thing for you to do is get up and get out,don't start dating too soon love yourself and take care of yourself..The worst thing you could do is get right back into a relationship with anyone..Have fun with friends, and family.Stay away from her and anyone that might be delivering bitter info to you for her..Good luck..There is someone out there right now who can totally make you happy and that's who you need..
2006-11-14 19:28:22 · answer #1 · answered by john316tdh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you feel bad because she has found someone else, and the fact that she is bragging about it isn't helping you. Look on the bright side she is your ex for a reason and you know that you can do better. I dare say that as soon as you find someone she will start bragging again about how good her man is again. But for now although it might make you sad and you miss her just ignore her, don't be rude to her, just speak to her if you have to, and try not to let her bother you. Just remember that a better girl is out there for you.
2006-11-15 04:01:41 · answer #2 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only been 3 months...it definately still hurts. I understand what your going through becoz i am in the same situation. My ex is now with a new girl and i can't do anything about it. I also know for a fact we are both not compatible.All you can do is take care of yourself. Go dating with another. It will keep your mind off things. And if it still hurts when you see her, just remember why you broke up in the first place, you will definately feel much better.
2006-11-15 03:22:58 · answer #3 · answered by celine_csk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good riddance
Kiss her and her and sex goodbye
She is trying to hurt you
So I heard that the best revenge is being successful
So perk up and put a great big smile on your face every day you go to work, even when you don't see her because we must keep up positive attitude .
Look good and smell good all the time
establish a new exciting look that would cause a blind woman to see again
Your smile is so captivating that other woman will beg to be with you.
So get cracking kid we have much work to do. Oh, and work those triceps and biceps babes!
2006-11-15 03:34:53 · answer #4 · answered by mapleavenue456 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
F**k her, who brags to their ex about their new relationship? If she's doing this to you, she's obviously conceited. No one deserves that. Breaking up is hard enough. You sound like you really loved her. She doesn't take your feelings into consideration, how could she have loved you? Theres plenty of girls who could appreciate a careing man. I know its hard to get over that one person, but you will get rewarded, especially if you were faithful. I wish you the best and I know you will fall in love again, just make sure she sweats you, and thats how you will know if shes worth giving your heart to!!!
2006-11-15 03:30:00 · answer #5 · answered by None 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same your problem, if you really know you love her like that, you should controlled yourself, and don't try to be a winner with her. Now you should try to be gentle and nice to her if you see her, tell her you still miss and love her, and then one day if you are patient you will touch her heart if you are clever
2006-11-15 04:24:34 · answer #6 · answered by Neighbour 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got the same kind of deal going on. I know thats not an answer but at least your not alone.
2006-11-15 03:20:33 · answer #7 · answered by stoneman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What made u guys to call it quits.. I believe u know the answer
2006-11-15 03:32:28 · answer #8 · answered by mommy2be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"...go to pieces and I almost die every time
my baby passes by..."
You need to stop feeling sorry for yourself and consider it her loss. Just play it off, man. She's getting to you and it doesn't help by you showing it...
2006-11-15 03:18:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and hurt your self again. Love is not logical......that's why you have not learned from your past mistake...so go ahead...make your day....
2006-11-15 03:19:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋