Can you stand that if your boyfriend/partner checks out other girls' butts on the streets while he was walking with you and ignored what you talked to him? He told you that it's normal for guys to do it..... what do you think?
2006-11-14 18:25:53 · 23 answers · asked by smurf 2 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
I talked with him after this incident happened. I demanded for little respect as I am his gf. He said that he didn't have a "look" or "not to look" buttons in his head. I got mad and I was sure my blood pressure was sky high after I heard that.
2006-11-14 19:16:59 · update #1
I know that he checked out girls when we walked on the streets. I don't have problem on that as we are human being. I demanded for little respect that he could listen to me while I was talking and not being have been ignored. Demanding too much?
2006-11-15 15:29:06 · update #2
I think He doesn't respect you. Yes, naturally, all people admire beauty in the opposite sex, however, when you're with someone that you care about you should give them your full attention.
2006-11-14 18:30:01 · answer #1 · answered by PeanutsMama 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay, well, it depends on what type of look it is. If he just kinda glances, appreciates for a second, and then returns his attention to you, I'd say it's no big deal. But if it seems like you have to pick his tongue up off the ground and have to get naked to get his attention, that's a problem. And if it bothers you and you've told him that it does, he should be able to control himself around you. He's not a monkey, he can control himself. If he still doesn't stop, give him a taste of his own medicine. Start checking guys out and see what he does. Maybe he'll see just how much that hurts you.
2006-11-18 00:44:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is normal. By the time a guy thinks about not looking, it's too late...he's already looked. It's how long he looks that you girls should key in on. Long stares ARE disrespectful and rude. But to expect a guy not to look is like expected a woman not to get emotionally sensitive during her period. It's just not realistic...it's the way we (guys and girls) are made. If a guys eyes are glued on you all the time, and never on anybody else, it's not normal...and if it's really all that important to you that he behave this way, you really need to ask yourself why it's so important (you may be the one with the problem).
2006-11-15 17:01:57 · answer #3 · answered by fishman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that if he is worth your time that he should respect you enough to not act like that. It is in human nature to look and find others desireable, however there is a time and place for it and it is not while talking with your girlfriend. If he thinks his behavior is fine ask him if he minds you talking about your ex-boyfriends and how they were in bed. I think he will take the hint that you find his actions offensive and that he should grow up and act like a man not a boy, and if he doesn't there are much better choices and it was not meant to be. Leaving something farmiliar isn't easy, but if hes looking you should be too!
2006-11-15 02:37:08 · answer #4 · answered by flashfashionplate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This can be controlled, and is a matter of respect. Men are human beings and as all of us male/female, if we see something attractive we will look. However, we can control ourselves we are not animals. So tell him you would appreciate for him to exercise some self control and not keep staring and gawking as if you were not there. This shows a low level of respect and immaturity. This can be accomplished. Good luck and God bless*
2006-11-15 07:13:30 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to check out another girls but it is not normal to disrespect you like that. Being purposely obvious is hurtful. Nothing but a good pinch on the arm will get his attention. How cool can he look yelling OWWWWWWWWW
2006-11-15 02:31:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! That p***es me of too. If he says my butt is perfect then why does he have to look at everyone elses? How would he feel if I kept staring at the sexy boy with the perfect 6-pack as he was trying to talk to me? He'd explode! I'd have to say, " Hey, I can't control what my eyes like to look at, can I?"
2006-11-16 12:59:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say get away from this oak as fast as you can, He is just showing his true colours, for now it is butt-looking but next time it will be butt-touching. I regard his behaviour as disrespectful towards you, as he committed himself to have a relationship with you.
NOrmal? What a lame excuse. I wonder if he would still consider it normal if you flirt with others or pay more attention to them and their bodies when he is with you?
2006-11-15 05:52:40 · answer #8 · answered by godshandmaiden 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know that you said for girls to answer this only, but I had to sound off. If you feel that his looking at another woman has in any way disrespected you, then what he did is wrong. If he is just looking then its nothing more than that and your jealousy is showing. :)
2006-11-15 02:57:31 · answer #9 · answered by Sparkybear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal with men to look at other women's *** BUT when they love somebody they ONLY have their eyes on the girl!! trust me, am not trying to say that he doesn't love U or something, its up to U to decide about it but when a guy loves a girl he tries his best to just have her attention n U know its their turn to worry about their girl to not look at other guys ( guys are like us as well , if they want to have a girl they kinda compete with other men as well ) anyway , if he had his eyes on U he would only want yer attention, yer body and everything about U , think about it
2006-11-15 03:07:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋