2006-11-14 18:02:40 · 7 answers · asked by vsiong 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
pull rank!
aren't you the King??
2006-11-14 18:06:35 · answer #1 · answered by kimandchris2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
assuming you are refering to a strong woman,,sit and think about your weaknesses AND hers,,she has them ,,see where when you need help she picks up the slack and vise versa,,she may not even know when you can do something she cant,,try to get her to see how the best of the both of you work together but while you are fighting this,,or rather she is,,you are not such a good partnership,,,,strength is good but to want to control usually signifies some form of insecurity,,it may come from something as simple as lack of control as a child and when she reached adulthood,,she kind of took over because she found she could and to let this control slip just hasnt been an option,,she may not even know this is why she does it but this for the two of you to discuss,,most of the time a couple work as a team because one person cannot do all despite what they think,,it may be something simple as you dont work well with people but she does and does this well leaving you able to blend in without being rude to others while at the same time,,you may be gifted with an ability to fix things,,bring in 'man' help when needed,or a huge one,,make her feel like a woman and feel safe,,when you get something everyday it isnt as noticable as it should be but the partnership is there and respect is deserved on both sides,,have a chat,,"while you are very good at....,,and we both know i am rubbish at it,,you are rubbish at.....and that is my job,this is why we work...." give her security WITHIN the relationship and she may release her grip on the reigns..
2006-11-14 19:08:09 · answer #2 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you knew she was Queen when dating her, Which if you waited even a week before marrying her it would show, why are you complaining now? Except it, that's what you married. Talk to her but don't expect her to change. Dating is to find out each others perks and down falls and see if you can accept it. If you can you marry. And your married so... Live with it bub.
2006-11-14 18:09:59 · answer #3 · answered by Queen Burn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suspect that being in control all the time as she likes to be is exhausting for her and squelching the marriage. Ask her what she wants from the marriage. Tell her what you want from the marriage. Is the current status quo working for either one of you? Ask her would she rather be right or would she rather be happy?
2006-11-14 18:26:53 · answer #4 · answered by Janet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might not mater what we think. if she is queen control the only option is to ask her. welcome to the married life.
2006-11-14 18:10:40 · answer #5 · answered by jesse g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if she'll compromise since it should be a marriage of two equal people
2006-11-14 18:05:15 · answer #6 · answered by LW 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bow down honey!
2006-11-14 18:04:34 · answer #7 · answered by lil mami 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋