Well, I have a boy who like's me, but he's a big prevert, he's cute and everything, and he talks to me, But I can tell he's a prevert from the things he say's which I dont mind, I mean who doesn't like the attention? But anyway, is there a possible way to change a prevert into well, a normal guy? *well not NORMAl, but like, not all prevey* Or should they have to figure that out them selves?
2006-11-14 15:07:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, That is right, I guess I should leave him on the curb until he learns to grow up.
2006-11-14 15:16:15 · update #1
He sounds immature. Sorry, the only thing that cures that is age. And even then, not all immature guys outgrow that phase.
2006-11-14 15:13:31 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you mean PERvert, not PREvert lol.
If he were mature, he would'nt be speaking in a perverse way in your presence. If he's that bad now, trust me, he's a lot worse inside.
You're correct in the "kicking him to the curb" part. You're not going to be able to change him.
I've said this many times, as women, our biggest error is thinking we can change a guy. We need to see him for what he is, listen to what he's saying and BELIEVE it. Then, decide if what we see is something we're in agreement with. If it's not, don't go into it planning to change him. It won't work.
2006-11-14 23:20:21 · answer #2 · answered by Amy N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean pervert? He isn't going to change as long as you "don't mind" and tolerate it. If he really likes you and wants to hook up with you, you need to lay down the law and tell him that his "acting" (which is probably his way of drawing attention to himself because he is possibly insecure for some reason...to a point) is unacceptable if he wants a relationship to exist. If you really like him and accept his behavior, (even if deep down you really don't want to) then you are allowing him to be the controller and it is your weakness that is in the limelight. Yes the attention is great but there is a right way and wrong way to get it and the respect that you deserve with it. Good luck!
2006-11-14 23:21:45 · answer #3 · answered by onecharliecat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not... Girls are always trying to change a piece of coal into a diamond and its just about as hard to change a low life into a class act. It can be done but is it worth it? While your trying to change this guy a truly nice guy might pass you by because your hanging out with a perv.
2006-11-14 23:56:34 · answer #4 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from a guy, some of us are naturally cool, some naturally losers, and those select few who are f****** pervs. Trust me he can probably fake it for a while, but sooner or later you'll figure it out. You can try and change him, but just hope he doesn't break your heart in the process.
2006-11-15 02:26:38 · answer #5 · answered by chromecranium 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no known way to change another human being unless they are motivated to change . Stay away from this guy , he sounds like he wants to grow up and be a wife beater !
2006-11-14 23:16:16 · answer #6 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even try to change anyone pass the age of 4.
2006-11-15 11:13:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋