2006-11-14 14:29:14 · 14 answers · asked by Keyh 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
No not at all!! It wasn't just you, he did his part too. I hope it works out the way you want it! :)
2006-11-14 14:37:06 · answer #1 · answered by Avianna Janae June 05, 2008 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No you are not a bad person, its only natural for a woman to want a child. But you need to think about your situation if you are pregnant. Will he stand by you even though he doesnt want a baby? And if not, who is more important to you, him or the baby? Just some things you will have to think about, but I wish you all the luck.
2006-11-14 22:34:31 · answer #2 · answered by AussieHel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course not. Before I had my baby I was in the same situation you are. My boyfriends whole family wanted me to have an abortion. He didnt think we could have a baby and pushed abortion and adoption. Its not that I wasnt scared, its not that I did have reservations, but I knew I did not have it in me to kill an innocent life. I would never be able to give away my baby either. So you do what you think is right. I held tight and had my baby, his family changed their tune pretty quick and so did the dad. They are a blessing. Dont feel bad.
2006-11-15 00:32:51 · answer #3 · answered by jennyve25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tricked him by lying about birth control or something that is wrong on so many levels!
If it was a mistake, than no you aren't a bad person, somethings are just out of our hands. Try to make the best of the situation.
You placed this question in the "trying to conceive" category, hopefully you weren't actually trying with someone who doesn't want kids.
2006-11-14 22:33:57 · answer #4 · answered by katherinernilson 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hopefully you did not make the decision to get pregnant all by yourself!...
if it all happened naturally and you both did not premeditate whatever the result is, you are not a bad person. it is an accident and nor yourself or your boyfriend should be blamed more than the other for it...
hope everything works out for you.
2006-11-14 23:10:08 · answer #5 · answered by roxy3076 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not a bad person, but you're extremely naiive to think that you can raise an illigitimate and fatherless child and still make the child and yourself happy. You'll ruin your relationship with him and the next guys are always going to see your innocent baby as "baggage". Do yourself and your future baby a favor and wait until you're married. Your baby deserves it and so do you.
2006-11-14 22:33:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not unless you tricked him. But no, it doesn't. A lot of guys will get scared when they think of being a dad. But when they actually feel the baby, feel it move, or even see the ultra sound, it can change them.
Give it time. You need to relax. Don't worry about him. He will come around.
2006-11-14 22:36:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it doesn't make you a bad person...but maybe before having the kids you wanted, you should have found someone else who shared that passion. Good luck!!
2006-11-14 22:32:54 · answer #8 · answered by farmersdaughter 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are pregnate. Your boyfriend will love having a baby he just doesn't know it yet, Break it to him gentaly, If he over reacts he needs to grow up. But once the baby is born, His whole out look on the baby situation will be completly diffrent. He will be proud to be that baby's daddy..
2006-11-14 22:39:10 · answer #9 · answered by April M 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
at this point if you are pregnant it really doesn't matter because you are having the kid [unless you get an abortion]
2006-11-15 00:05:58 · answer #10 · answered by girl. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋