Ive tried everything! EVERYTHING I simply cannot have an orgasim. I've even tried sexual stimulant pills. Nothing works. Im a doomed to a life of "faking"
2006-11-14 14:25:07 · 13 answers · asked by Misty 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
just keep trying!
everyone has their special spot!
If you want an orgasm during sex, most females do not have orgasms during sexual intercourse. Most orgasms happens during foreplay where the clitoris is being stimulated..
2006-11-15 02:42:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If faking is what you do. I never have. If I don't come, I don't pretend, I get upset! I think you have to relax more. Are you on any medications that can cause side effects? I know i have been in the past and that was no fun. Also, it may be a hormone problem. I have a toy called a butterfly...cost too much but it works very well when my hubby is out of town. So, it could be a number of things. Good luck, I'd hate to no know what it's like.Ask the Dr. maybe they can help you.
2006-11-14 22:32:30 · answer #2 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not doomed to a life of faking. If you enjoy sex but do not organsm - it is alright. If you are in a committed relationship and it bothers your man - try this. Ask him not to orgasm while you are having sex. Then when it is over, ask him if he enjoyed the love making session. I suspect that he will say that he did. And then tell him that you also enjoy love making even though you do not orgasm. I would suggest that you be honest with your lovers and enjoy the intensity of your love making and do not fake orgasms.
2006-11-14 22:29:38 · answer #3 · answered by jazzydee2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep trying thats the fun part. It took me a while to figure out my special spot for orgasims but now, whew, what a ride!! LOL
2006-11-14 22:27:39 · answer #4 · answered by SummerLovin' 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, just look at lots of naked men online (or women if you go the other way) and fantasize like crazy and don't give up until it happens.
Sorry I can't give more help, I've always had it pretty easy and don't really know how hard or not it is for others.
2006-11-14 22:37:36 · answer #5 · answered by Indigo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily, have you seen a doctor about this? Sometimes this problem is resolved with prescription medication. Keep experimenting, masturbation is the key to understanding what you like and what you don't. See a doctor if you're that worried about it.
2006-11-14 22:28:45 · answer #6 · answered by Rebecca B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can ya get it by yerself? Try laying down in yer bathtub, feet up on the wall, and let luke warm water flow right on yer spot. Works for most girls I know.
2006-11-14 22:27:24 · answer #7 · answered by Greg P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get a bf who is willing to take the time necessary to make you ***. You need to lay on your back and have him start to nibble on your pu**y. Suck and gently bite your clit, sucking it all. He should do it for about 20 minutes. Just let yourself go, dont hold back at all. Guaranteed to work.
2006-11-14 22:39:52 · answer #8 · answered by sub_bob4u 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try Clitoral Stimulation.....(Silver Bullet). A large amount of women can only have a Clitoral Orgasm and you may be one of them.
2006-11-14 22:37:48 · answer #9 · answered by mlbaker123 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Relax! You're probably thinking about it too much and not enjoying it enough. Maybe your partner isn't Mr. Right after all. It happens......
2006-11-14 22:28:28 · answer #10 · answered by Diablo 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋