He is always commenting on if a certain guy likes me, hinting around like "ehh ehh are y'all goin' out??" and he calls me "baby" jokingly and also goes "you ARE single, right??" After I replied "yes" he goes "goooooooood, it's good to remain single" and he just smiled.
I have to say I am attracted to him. Do you think he is interested or just making casual convo?!
Thanks for any help!! :)
2006-11-14 14:21:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If I were you I would approach with caution, because that sounds like innocent flirting to me. I have seen men act this same way, and then when my friends approached the men hoping to start something, they would get humiliated by finding out it was innocent and he meant nothing by it, or even worse, that he said the very same phrases to other women around him.....so good luck! I know if a man acted like that around me and I was single I wouldn't care if he was joking or not. I would take him up on it and hint that I'm attracted to him - flirt back. And if it turns out he is just a flirt I would take it as a challenege to win him over and become his only flirting target! good luck, hon!!
2006-11-14 14:27:13 · answer #1 · answered by jess l 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Come on, of course he's interested. He is doing what we call, "beating around the bush." Hes being groovy, smooth and careful about how he asks as men can be afraid to come right out and ask if your single and then if they get the courage to ask that, they may fear the answer of "Sorry I'm not single and am dating so and so." Try to imagine if we as women really liked someone and how we would go and approach that guy and wonder and then ask in a "beat around the bush" way if he's single. Takes a lot fo courage for these men to ask these questions without the possibility of being let down. You gotta give 'em credit. He likes you and is just trying to keep cool and smooth through the normal process of nervousness that comes with telling someone you like them and are interested. Its the way he said good too that shows happiness on his part, meaning he still has a chance if interested....trust me, hes interested. Good luck.
2006-11-14 22:27:36 · answer #2 · answered by Charlie 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It sounds to me like he is being a bit flirtatious. If he brings up the single thing again make a comment about how being single isn't always what it's cracked up to be and that it would be nice to be in a relationship right now. I bet you that he is just waiting for you to give him a sign that you are also interested. Some guys are to afraid to be let down.
2006-11-14 22:24:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well,if he think that its good to remain single,that just casual convo coz he encourage you stay single.He would't do that if he is interested.
He might also want to know whether you are single and thinking about next move.Its still very bluurry for now,need more hints.
At the mean time,don't put your hope so high yet!
2006-11-14 22:29:18 · answer #4 · answered by Janet Y 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
he LIKES you. Guys don't say that to make casual conversation but because they want to know if you are free to date. So just flirt back the next time he asks if you are single, he's trying to find out if you like him... which you do! =)
2006-11-14 22:24:53 · answer #5 · answered by pacific_crush 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he's interested, but I wonder why he hasn't made a move yet? Next time he asks if you're still single ask him why he cares and turn it around on him. Find out if he is interested, and if he's not then why he's yanking you around.
2006-11-14 22:24:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you just has to let him know your interested.....he just doesn't want to make it weird if your not interested.
I would say some thing like,
If your single and im single we shouldn't be single any more?
Hey , I'm single and take me out some time and not just as friends, if your interested?
Ice breakers are the key word.
you could actual goggle relationship icebreaker lines or etc etc
good luck
Justin
2006-11-14 22:23:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
hes flirting, flirt back have some innocent fun.....life doesn't always have to be so serious, theres lots of time for that....see where the flirting goes
2006-11-15 12:46:58 · answer #8 · answered by dcktbm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He definitely likes you; why would he care if you were single otherwise?
2013-12-07 10:39:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's somewhat interested, but he is taking his time to know how you are around with other guys... ...I would take it very easy here, and let nature take its coarse......
2006-11-14 22:30:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋