How many of you have had sex before marriage?
How many of you who have...wish you could change that?
How many of you who aren't married and haven't had sex yet plan on not having it till after marriage?
Why do you think this?
...Also, how come so many people rush into it...why can't everyone wait to find the right person...to save everything they have for the love of thier life?
2006-11-14 13:48:03 · 18 answers · asked by Lina 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Whoa, this confused me but I'm going to give it a try.
1. Not me, I don't believe in it
2. Wouldn't know
3. Me
4. Because it's my belief. I think that we should save ourselves for that special someone. Not only are we honoring our bodies, which we should take as temples, but we are saving ourselves from a lot of hurt. If you go around and just have sex carelessly with any random person that you think you have a special bond with but are not married to and therefore do not know if this person is worth your time..you know you're going to regret it.
A lot of people say "you should have sex with the people you date so that when you meet that special someone, you're experienced enough and know you're going to do it right.". Okay, A.) That's not important because if you marry someone with the same morals and values as you, they will be just as pure as you are. B.) Would you want that person that you meet to have been around the block about a dozen times?
It's like this. Let's say you had a fresh soda...next to that you had a warm soda that many people have already taken sips out of. Would you want that used soda? Or would you want that fresh, unopened soda?
I don't know. It's up to you and what you believe. I'm not trying to impose my beliefs on you. Just giving you something to think about.
2006-11-14 13:59:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh wow.. okay..
How many of you have had sex before marriage?
-i'm a virgin..
How many of you who have...wish you could change that?
-see previous answer
How many of you who aren't married and haven't had sex yet plan on not having it till after marriage?
-i'm not sure yet, still young!
Why do you think this?
-yeah, cant rly answer that because of my previous answer..
...Also, how come so many people rush into it...why can't everyone wait to find the right person...to save everything they have for the love of thier life?
-i totally agree!! this generation just likes to rush into things, i dont think anyone should do anyting with a random person who they dont care about
2006-11-14 13:54:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't wait til marriage and I don't regret it. I didn't rush and I don't think that it's considered rushing if you're not married. The sad truth is there are many people out there that will never find the love of their life, just the love for right now.
2006-11-14 13:54:52 · answer #3 · answered by m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Had sex before marriage and would probably do it again. Wouldn't get pregnant as early though. I think it truly depends on the culture you grow up in. America isn't exactly known for it's virtuous, high moral standards, and when you're young and on fire, it's inevitable. I feel that it is a personal decision and to each his own.
2006-11-14 13:57:28 · answer #4 · answered by Noelle S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did
I wouldn't change the fact that I had sex just who and what age I was when I first did it
married
because people want to know what it feels like and they think it says that they love a person at an early age... however, sex is not love and love is not sex. took me a long time to figure that one out.
2006-11-14 13:53:53 · answer #5 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have
i dont, i wish i could change the fact i had sex with this one guy, however the other guy i have sex with i plan to marry him♥
i found the love of my life, i was 16 hed just turned 20 everyone said he was only in it for sex. we had sex almost 6 months later and it was initiated by me. hes the love of my life hes the one for me
i couldnt be happier
2006-11-14 13:55:16 · answer #6 · answered by Jordan Alexis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive had allot of sex and Ive never been married
I dont care to change that would like to be married someday
no
just the way I was raised I guess
Ive been dating for 3 years and only slept with one of them girl.
2006-11-14 13:54:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes have had it, wouldn't change it. Didn't rush into it, I waited til I was 18 don't regret a thing. Practice makes perfect!!
2006-11-14 13:53:22 · answer #8 · answered by Bexx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm too young for adult stuff
i wish i can have sex to feel what sex actually feels like
that would be me
its build into me, i can't control it
because we are desperate for love
2006-11-14 13:53:04 · answer #9 · answered by ##$SoulStryker$## 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i had sex before marriage, no wouldnt change it. if someone choose to save themselves i say more power to them. i chose not to, and it's ok with me.
2006-11-14 13:51:31 · answer #10 · answered by Boop 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋