seriously, though most people will say no.
subconciously we do care right?
it actually affects our decisions, like if we're worried we might be getting fat, or wearing ugly clothes, etc.
so, how do we really dont care?
2006-11-14 13:44:25 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
There are extremes that caring about what others think makes into a carbon copy of someone else and you're not really yourself. You have to believe in yourself and have self-respect so that you don't get into doing things aren't right. When you can stand strong whether certain people like you or not - that should be your goal.
2006-11-14 13:48:10 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd like to say no but that would be a half lie. I really don't care what people think but sometimes I get the that feeling of what others see me as. When I go clothes shopping I buy some clothes that I like but then I begin to try on clothes that I normally wouldn't wear. Then I begin to think that my face isn't clean enough because I have a small spot of acne near my hair line which is hard to get rid of. Then i begin to think that I'm a little over weight and being to exercise more than i use to. After a while it slips my mind and i don't care what others think. I'm both ways. Sometimes I care other times I don't. I just don't think about what others might see when they look at me. I just like the fact that I'm here and living a good life and its not being ruled all the time by others opinions.
2006-11-14 13:50:39 · answer #2 · answered by dartzallmine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone does. If I get pushed against the wall so to speak and have to make a decision or do something that I know certain people don't like, then I have to swallow my fears of offending someone and go with my gut instincts. In the end, I don't let other people dictate my life, but I try to keep the peace as much as I reasonably can.
2006-11-14 13:48:23 · answer #3 · answered by Doug R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok fine I admit it. Out loud I say I don't care but I do. There are different levels of this concept tho. As I mature I find that there are fewer things I care about than when I was young. For example teenagers are more likely to worry about what people think of their hair and clothes. Young adults are more likely to worry about what people think of their love life, or car, or job. Then the older we get we worry that the people we care about will know we care about them. It goes on and on, and changes every decade.
2006-11-14 13:48:40 · answer #4 · answered by alwayslarat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-01 12:42:11 · answer #5 · answered by capel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most times in the moment I don't care at all what people think of me, but after the fact I think about it and wonder what I was thinking and I start putting myself down. I try to not care whay anyone around me thinks but I find myself saying things taht I don't really mean just so it will please whoever is listening. If someone says he or she doesn't care at all what others think, he or she is either lying or has no self esteem at all and that's a sad thing to think about!
2006-11-14 13:51:09 · answer #6 · answered by jess l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone cares. Everyone. If someone tells you they don't you know they are lieing. Because when they say this, they want people to get the impression that they really don't care, but that would be caring what people think now wouldn't it?
2006-11-14 13:46:33 · answer #7 · answered by Liz♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of us care what people think and there are those out here that just care about what people say. I care about them both personally.
2006-11-14 13:50:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say I don't, and for a while believed it. But I'm embarrassed to invite my own boyfriend to my house, so I guess I do care. I think that everyone secretly cares a little bit.
2006-11-14 13:47:28 · answer #9 · answered by UrNightmare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i mean i care of course
i care about possibly getting fat just because that would make me constantly upset.
but really i can do alot of things and not worry if people think im an idiot.
especially if im with the love of my life. you can ask me to do the most embarressing thing, and because hes there to laugh about it with me, its likely ill do it
2006-11-14 13:46:50 · answer #10 · answered by Jordan Alexis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋