i have no friends right now and its sad..and i neevr do anything wrong..friends seem to be overrated, cauz they always end up just walking away from you and never speaking to you again, anyways i have this friend(had) and for some reason she talks to me but she never wants to hang out with me anymore or anyting. i asked her if i did something wrong, and she said no. Whenever she hangs out with just one other person i ask if i can join in and she makes up some dumb excuse. this weekend she hung out with one girl on friday, one girl on saturday and one girl on sunday. is it just me...or is this a bit strange? it seems like she wants all the attention and shes scared that if theres three people there she wont get enough. ill bring something up, i think she might be jealous because a lot of guys ask me to hang out or date and no guys ever ask her. im not syaing im prettier than her or being conceited so dont get any ideas. shes being really cruel..why is she doing this to me? help
2006-11-14 13:15:28 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
bugger off. noo best frens
2006-11-14 13:16:38 · answer #1 · answered by askance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 20:08:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe this friendship has ended and it is time for you to forget about this person and get on with the business of living. However, if you keep losing friends as you said, then you might need to do some sincere self-evaluation to find out what's causing this problem. There's a reason for everything.
2006-11-14 13:20:49 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes my friends do that to me too..I just ignore them and try to talk to them if they don't listen i just argue and then finally they give up and say whats on there mind... I have had to say sorry a couple of times but in the end we always forgive eachother and move on...If she doesn't want to hang out with you and all she wants is attention then you shouldn't worry about it...She isn't worth it. Try to make new friends with other people and if that doesn't work...try to talk to her again, if she doesn't listen then talk to her some more..if you have to then scream...she'll hear you one day..( i hope) I am sorry if this doesn't help but i try...
2006-11-14 13:23:24 · answer #4 · answered by ME....yea..me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohh girls . and the drama. u really dont need friends to survive. u have urself. and u shouldnt rely on friends all the time. i wouldnt even really call them ur real friends. especially that girl. shes insecure and just wants attention . its callled jealousy. and take it as a compliment . girls are jealous of you. they are striving to be like you. dont take it personal. because you cant help it. trust me along the way in life your going to find TRUE friends. i dont know how old you are. but maybe not till college or out of college. or if your in grade school . maybe not even until high school. u gotta shake things off and not care. because worrying makes u even more upset. u just gotta be like "hey im gonna be okay, who cares" dont change urself for ANYBODY. not one person. thats the worst thing u can do . dont try to act like someone because u need friends. u dont need friends. concentrate on something else. school work. sports. ur job. something like that to excell in later in life. be yourself. because people should only like you if your yourself. and if you realy dont have any friends. dont turn to the guys as boyfriends to get comfort.
hope i helped. sorry it was long !
2006-11-14 13:22:00 · answer #5 · answered by xo_your_mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesnt sound like a friend to me! Look up the word friend in a dictionary! One decent friend is worth a load of friends who you cannot trust or who keep rejecting you. Don't make yourself look desperate-let people chase after you instead. People always want what they don't have. If you leave her alone and don't ask to be with her you will soon find out if she realy is your friend. If she is, she will soon ask to be with you. You are obviously likeable-the guys are interested aftr all.
2006-11-14 13:21:05 · answer #6 · answered by angeldust 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a drag to hang out with someone that gets asked out all the time and you don't. Maybe she wants to hang out with girls that don't make her feel bad about herself ( that she doesn't get asked out) It'ds not a great idea to have only one friend anyways. Try getting involved in school and get a larger group. One friend is not enough.
2006-11-14 13:19:32 · answer #7 · answered by weswe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may be shy and not comfortable with more than one person around. She may feel when she is with you it is all about you.
you do no wrong ? your not conceited but guys ask you out but not her ? how do you know unless you are around her 24/7
she wants space to do other things with other people and sorry you sound jealous not her
I have friends at work I hang around with at lunch and such but we do nothing after work. We do not have anything in common outside of the office
2006-11-14 13:23:36 · answer #8 · answered by G L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds insecure and it seems like she is not able to relate to more than one person at a time. let that be her problem. you could tell her you are her friend too and that if she wants to hang out to call you.
why not hang out with other friends who don't mind more of you getting together at the same time and have some fun
2006-11-14 13:22:08 · answer #9 · answered by Cymbaline 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your bothering her or doing some thing that she doesn't like or shes trying to make you jealous it sounds like it or she just wants what she wants and doesn't care about you. Who knows theres a lot of reasons on the way shes acting. Go to her and confront her!!!
2006-11-14 13:19:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it, and if she is really jealous if you hung out with another girl "I bet she gets over it"! Maybe she is doing something that she thinks you would frown on and does not want you to know about it- like drugs!
2006-11-14 13:27:26 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋