when i was in high school (i graduated just a few months ago) i would be horny almost alllll the time....it was crazy.....but then...i started dating this guy...and we fell in love with each other and ever since then.....i have spent long periods of time (up to one month) without craving sex....we are in an LDR and havent seen each other in a while (plz dont try to lecture me that LDRs dont work out....besides....we are gonna move in together in about a month). I thought that women were supposed to have an increase in sex drive when they were in love with the guy.....why am i not like htat? its not that he doesnt turn me on....he DOES....its just that now i get horny less often.....what could possibly be wrong??? i kind of miss the old me :( i really enjoyed having a high sex drive....wat can i do to revive this? we're both virgins btw
2006-11-14 12:50:45 · 4 answers · asked by kat G 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
It could just be a mental thing, idk. Try doing some erocit things, like when you move in, walk around naked, or build up your sex drive on a free day when you fave time to see what turns you on.
2006-11-14 12:57:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you were younger and your hormones were raging, the excess horniness was expected. Being in a loving relationship switches the scene from lust to, well-- love. The desire is still there, but the urges are more controlled because they are accompanied by intimacey and purpose within the relationship. You're on love, which means your sexual feelings are connected to the other person. Right now, you are far away from each other; the distance could be causing the decreased sex drive. I am sure when you move in together, things will change.
Don't view your decreased sex drive as a negative. It is a protection mechanism; your body and mind are really protecting your sexuality because of your emotions connected to being in love. Real love changes our minds and bodies for the better.
I am sure it would have been awful to have such intense, uncontrolled urges and be so far away from your baby.
2006-11-14 21:17:07 · answer #2 · answered by Empress Sky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u love this guy when u see him again the minute he turn you on have sex with him and then maybe you will continue to have your sex drive only with him now.
2006-11-14 20:54:08 · answer #3 · answered by chazelly_7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy a big vibrator and let your man use it on you
2006-11-14 20:55:02 · answer #4 · answered by neil k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋