he was the last person i thought would die. He got shoot in the head and he did it himself. they said it was an accident. we had conciling on monday in our school for people who needed it and i went twice. he was the nicest person ever. now when i do, see, or hear something that reminds me of him i break down crying. his wake is on thursday and its open to public and the funeral is friday at 11 am during school. how do i get over the pain i am going through? i am 13 by the way.
2006-11-14 12:04:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
That's awful.
2006-11-14 18:52:04 · answer #1 · answered by answerer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad that these things have to happen but some kids see it as a way out of the misery they are feeling at the time and don't realize it is the final solution. Maybe if you attended either the wake and/or funeral you could help to put some closure to his death and share in the grief with his family, friends and loved ones. This will probably stay with you for a long time but eventually will be much easier to deal with.
2006-11-14 12:12:43 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a person that close to you dies that takes a long time to heal and get over it... I lost my mother 4 1/2 years ago and it took me 3 years which was hard on me to get over the feeling of pain and loss...The idea of not seeing that person is the hardest of them all.. My advice to you is try to continue to see a couselor or if you need to talk to somebody about how you feel please feel free to email me at Beagirl40@Yahoo.com
I am sorry for your loss and I know what you are going through but in time you will be okay also if you are a religious person ask for Gods help too, I did and I have to say I am glad that I did.
2006-11-14 12:11:56 · answer #3 · answered by beagirl40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't get over the pain easily. The best thing to do is try to accept what has happened and remember him during happy times. Go to his wake, tell him everything that is on your mind, and grieve for him that is the only way you will start feeling a bit less pain. I'm so sorry for your loss and good luck.
2006-11-14 12:55:51 · answer #4 · answered by MRG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to hear of your friend's death. It is hard to get over the loss of someone. Obviously, your friend needed help. Accident or no accident, why would he have been messing around with a gun? Time is the best healer of loss, but even still you won't forget it. I will pray for you that the Lord will help you to heal. If you can talk to one of your parents about how you feel it will help. Many times sharing your feelings with someone will help you to get through it. Allow yourself to mourn the loss. It's okay to cry!
2006-11-14 12:12:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 20:03:38 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I'm sorry but you cant do anything expat try to think of the good times you Had and think of the future ...you will never forget but you will learn to live with it ....i lost my best friend at 11 and I'm 39 now and almost every day i still think of my old fishing buddy....he was 12 when he drowned....so just look ahead and think about the nice things and talk to him ....hes watching over you now so be very happy that hes protecting you now and try to stay in touch with the family
2006-11-14 12:14:43 · answer #7 · answered by acierman2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have some one on one time with your family. Talk to them about it, and how u feel. When you need to cry just cry. It will get better, I lost someone as well, my bother. The hardest thing I had to deal with, but it gets better. You will always miss him, but think all the good times, and keep a smile on your face
2006-11-14 12:09:36 · answer #8 · answered by Diamond D 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey, this takes time. You can't get over the death of someone very fast. This just happened. Cry, talk it out, or even get mad. These are feelings you just have to go through. It's called the grieving process. It will get better for you. It just takes time.
2006-11-14 12:09:16 · answer #9 · answered by sheeny 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
thats very sad. my best friends dad died.i know it is hard. maybe u should hang pics of him in your room. try to think of othere stuff. when u are in class, when u start 2 feel bad, ask to go 2 the bathroom. start a diary. pray 2 god. hope u feel better. i am sending u my blessings. i will pray 4 u in my class tomorrow. may god be with u.
2006-11-14 12:14:04 · answer #10 · answered by emmachoclab 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no reall way of getting over it u jsut have to move on with life and think of things that he would of liked u to get done in life and that he would of liked u 2 have nice like and to be happy so try doing those things and it might help i know how it feels to lose someone that u r really close to and it will take time to get over but u will get over it sooner or later
2006-11-14 12:10:04 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋