i'm just married 4 mo bak n i'm pregnant n worried if the things vil b de same after de 1 baby?? like happiness ,kidding around ur life n ur interests n sort of things plzz help r shud i go fr abortion
2006-11-14 11:49:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
No things will not be the same after the baby! they never are married or not, but that happens when you have sex. When I had my daughter I was so happy and would never change it. My life has changed I cant just think about myself I have to worry about my kids first and then myself, My interests are still the same. I am still the same person before I had my daughter and will be the same after I have my boy just alittle busier and tired. You say you are married well don't you and your husband want to start a family and enjoy watching them grow and become something?
2006-11-14 11:54:15 · answer #1 · answered by Jessimommyof2 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I just had a baby 3 weeks ago. Yes your life changes and not for the worse. I look at my son and i am so glad that he choose me to be his mother. I love that little boy with everything that i have. To watch him laugh or cry causes me to do the same. I could stare at him all day.Things will get a little busier and life will be a different with a new person there, but it def is a blessing and somthing you shouldn't take for granted.
2006-11-15 11:04:35 · answer #2 · answered by omarion's mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm also just married for 4 months and pregnant. at first i was a bit sad also coz i didn't thought of having a baby so soon but it happen. me and my husband are very happy n can't wait to see our baby. i agree with you things won be the same but i'am sure when we see our baby for the first time there is no joy like that n as a mother to be i am very sure we know how to adjust things. please don ever think about abortion, there are many people out there longing for a child but god only give us this beautiful gift. Please keep that gift and enjoy it, it's your baby.
2006-11-14 21:24:50 · answer #3 · answered by unfortunate gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course nothing will be the same. you change when you become a mother. everything you do from now on is for the baby. you'll know what I'm talking about when you have it, just don't have an abortion. motherhood is a blessing not an obligation
2006-11-14 19:55:40 · answer #4 · answered by lp 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes things will be the same!!! With you being pregnant now you will have someone else to love!!!!! It's the same as having your first one, this time you have your husband and your other child. Keep it all kids are a gift from GOD and you should be thankful that you've recieved this gift.
2006-11-14 19:56:25 · answer #5 · answered by mamaof2 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i don;t think you should go for an abortion. things will be different, but you and your husband will still be the same people. let this experience bring you closer together.
2006-11-14 21:01:25 · answer #6 · answered by NewMommy!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Becoming mother is it self joyfull exp.
you shld enjoy every moment of becoming mother.
things viil be best after that pls foolow drs advise
2006-11-15 06:07:55 · answer #7 · answered by pp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it gets a little stressful sometimes,id say my life improved for the better.my daughter is 14 now.it has been a joy watching her growup...enjoy your baby,time flies,before you know it,they are grown and starting there own family! congradulations to you!
2006-11-14 19:54:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no but if you need to really have an abortion then go ahead it your baby after who am i to decide what you should with your child...good luck...
2006-11-14 20:09:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋