ok this girl myfriends and i already told her we didnt want her to be our friend b/c shes so anoying she followes use every where
if we had to go pee she would be in the same stall
and she shouts my friends names out and mine really loud
what should i do?
2006-11-14 11:27:09 · 25 answers · asked by babiegum24 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You need to try and say to her that you think she should go a find some new friends, don't yell at her or anything, just sit her down and speak to her in a nice way face to face. Be honest and just come out with it. I am positive you'll get your message across.
Don't be childish and ignore her or call her names, that's just nasty. Why don't you sit with her and tell her the things that annoy you and see if she can change that or of course you could find her a boyfriend, that will take her time away from you also. Don't be the bully, you have to be careful when it comes to young girls.
Whatever you do, be mature about it as she will respect you for it in the future and so will others.
**You could always do a "clueless" make her your own little project to make her cool, could be a challenge**
2006-11-14 11:30:21 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Princess ♥ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
this girl obviously needs friends and if you act tough towards her, she may emotional be hurt..and if she does hit that stage..she could hurt herself or others. I don't know this girl, so I have to consider what could happen to anyone that gets emotional hurt. This situation is obviously hard to unwind, but a talk is the first step and if she acts exagerated....don't freak act calmly.
say something like " I have never met someone who shouts my name out loud when i'm right beside him/her and if you keep doing that i'm not going to feal comfortable, please stop"
after you give her the message...look at her reaction...if she does not care about how you feal and does not want to cooperate...just ignore her. If she "tells on you" anyway..give the truthful reason..I told her I felt uncomfertable when she.........and she did not care because she kept........
you'll never lose...and trust me...the world is full of girls like her..some change,some don't lol
good luck
2006-11-14 11:53:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be carefull how you approach this situation, she could be insecure about herself, she might have problems at home maybe???? Talk to her on her own and ask her politely why is she reacting like the way she is, and hopefully she'll give you an answer.....but see her body language around others, because you might pick up why she follows you and your friends, the poor girl could be shy to socialise with other people.....see how you go she seems more confident being around you.....
2006-11-14 11:34:05 · answer #3 · answered by AGS429 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, it sounds like you are very very stuck up. I cant believe you actually told someone that you didnt want to be their friend because she is annoying. That is sooo sad. You sound very immature so i'm gonna think you are in middle school or even elementary school. Let her be. Just think about it. What if all of your friends one day said that they didnt want to be your friend anymore because you smell. Wouldnt that make you want to cry? She wants a friend and in stead of pushing her away befriend her. She is probably just reaching out in her own way by acting annoying. Grow up little one and realize that things you say can greatly effect the way you make people feel and how people see you.
2006-11-14 11:34:18 · answer #4 · answered by angel l 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Um, sounds like this girl has some major develop-mental problems...
Um, if she's trying to go to the bathroom in the same stall as you, you should probably tell your guidance councilor, because he'll protect her privacy, but, take care of the situation.
2006-11-14 11:29:09 · answer #5 · answered by Sylvie M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take her somewhere where its one on one, tell her exactly what all the problems are, don't just tell her she's annoying.
Ask her if she is willing to try to change to make things less annoying for you, if she starts acting better around you then that's good, but if she's still acting up tell a consoler or a principle, maybe even tell your mom or her mom.
2006-11-14 12:17:27 · answer #6 · answered by Angela 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ew tell her to let you have sum space! why would she even go in tha same stall as yall dat is kinda nasty if she dont even let yall use tha rr in peace..find her sum new friends or maybe you should jus be her friend cuz maybe shes in need of some and you should be nice to her
2006-11-14 11:38:15 · answer #7 · answered by shygurl_193 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really can't stand her, have the guts to tell her , otherwise you could be stuck with her for along time. Speaking from personnal experience, I didn't have the nerve to tell her I found her annoying and she stuck to me all trought high school.
2006-11-14 11:33:09 · answer #8 · answered by GreenEyedFox 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go tell her what's bothering you and explain I want to be friends with you but sometimes my friends and me need a little space now and again please don't take this the wrong way but I'm just feeling overwhelmed by you right now
2006-11-14 11:30:29 · answer #9 · answered by Positivitydeepbreathing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her calm it down lately you've been a little annoying and i need my space so ye ea when can still be friends but i need some space
2006-11-14 11:28:46 · answer #10 · answered by xX MisS eMo xX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋