i am 16 and never had a bestfriend all the friends i thought were my friends betrayed me. i am sick and tired of not having anyone to talk too or to even chill with sometimes. how do i get a friend????
2006-11-14 10:55:59 · 19 answers · asked by ki-ki 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well its easy u have to choose the friend who really loves u for what u r not for any interest
try to choose the friend who will help u in time of need
choose the kind heart one
u will friend many friends at anywhere but u keep search for them i am sure u will find friends
and before all these things try to change from ur self and know what people like and what people hate and try to be nice to all and kind so all will love u and asking u to be friends to u
2006-11-14 11:04:28 · answer #1 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think friendships in high school are tough. The best thing to do is try and befriend people in the same class with you. Then you at least have something in common. Be brave ask someone to have lunch with you. You can also join some kind of club or group. That is another way to make good friends. Don't worry through out life friends come and go. Right now I have two best friends one I met when I was 23years and the other when I was 26years old. I met them at my church group. It is easier to make close friends the older you get I think.
2006-11-14 11:00:45 · answer #2 · answered by Glee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not even gonna try to tell you how. My mom died when I was 12 and ever since then I don't trust anyone. I feel like if you love someone they will go away. Maybe join a club or some kind of church group and meet people who are interested in the same things you are.
2006-11-14 10:58:14 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, the answer lies within.
A cool way to make new friends is to volunteer at a local home for the elderly. Those folks crave visitors like yourself and you'd make lasting friendships with interesting people.
2006-11-14 10:59:43 · answer #4 · answered by Shibi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being sixteen a turmoil of emotions are going on with you right now and u are finding your feet in a big world,the childish things in your life are now being slowly replaced with more serious and adult attitudes,it is a difficult place to be,and every adult now has good and bad memorys about there mid-teens,friends will come and go as you persue a age related social life ,and boy is it a rollercoaster,its all part of developing a responsible outlook on things,a foundation for later in your life,enjoy it respect yourself and remember to not let your past be easily erased in the hope of maturing quicker than you allready are.
2006-11-14 11:17:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and do not try to impress anyone. That way, when someone does come along, and wants to be friends, they will know the real you and that is who they will be friends with. Be patient. I bet you are a good friend.
2006-11-14 10:59:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
having a best friend mesns a lot...its wonderful, but is so hard to find. most of the "friends" betray you behinf your back. And nobody can tell you how to get a friend...they just come, tehy show up and bright your way...
2006-11-14 10:58:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry about your friends!! Sounds like a freshman that is now my friend ( she got new friends through basketball) I would suggest joing a club, group or team...Hope this helps :)
2006-11-14 10:58:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate to sound like the mom here...but, my daughter goes thru the same thing... i personally think that she tries too hard...and it pushes people away. maybe look for a different cirlce of friends...friends are soo very important in high school...they will become so much of your memories...maybe look toward old friends (friends you had in jr high or even elementary school)..
2006-11-14 10:59:21 · answer #9 · answered by shasta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could it be that your purpose in life requires you have no friends! Seek God on this because he made you special for a reason! TRust me you have not fish living you will have one
2006-11-14 10:59:33 · answer #10 · answered by God's chosen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋