i have 3 other friends and we all are like 4 bfflyou no we are always together to 2 of my friends got into fight with another and they want me to shose sides, this has happened b4 and wut i did is tell them both im pretending to be on there side but im really on yours but its not working they aren stoping and they just keep on talking about each other what should i do?? ♥
2006-11-14 10:51:57 · 14 answers · asked by fafaoiwfhw 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
act quickly b4 they start talking about you.
2006-11-14 19:07:12 · answer #1 · answered by answerer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell each of them that you are friends to both and do not want to hear any bad things about either one of them.
Tell girl 1 that when you are with her, you won't bring up girl 2, and vice versa.
If you pretend to be on each girl's side and then they get back together and compare notes, you may be the one who's out.
2006-11-14 10:55:44 · answer #2 · answered by Juanitaville 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they can't get over it... tell them your going to be friends with both of them, and don't allow the them to talk about the other in front of you, so you can avoid getting in the middle of their fight...the key here is to not let yourself gossip, cuz it will come back and bite you in the butt if you do
2006-11-14 11:00:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you have to tell them the good time you all had, make them feel that is not wroth fighting, best friend stick together no crush each other.
2006-11-14 11:05:53 · answer #4 · answered by Mystery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been in these situations a LOT! i would talk to the other one (of the four) that is not one of the girls fighting...then maybe you two could make a plan together!
youre lucky theres 4 ppl, cuz threes ALWAYS a crowd!
2006-11-14 10:55:18 · answer #5 · answered by DanceChica03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to get them together. tell them to remember the good old days. the fun times. make them remeber and hopefully they will be friends again. dont take sides but little by little convince them
2006-11-14 11:10:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them you don't want to chose sides, and when they sort their problem out you'll be happy to talk to them again, if they don't get over it it's time to find new friends...I'm sorry i know you have been friends with them for a long time but sometimes you just grow apart...I'm sorry
2006-11-14 10:57:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them they got bit by the Drama Lama, and they need to get over it :)
2006-11-14 10:57:44 · answer #8 · answered by Cal021 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stay out of it. Its there problem and they have to figure it out for themselves. They are being unfair to you and making you go into their problem. They have to learn that they may sometimes may have to do things on there own and solve there own problems.
2006-11-14 10:57:12 · answer #9 · answered by Elemelapea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey grl i had the same problem and i just tried again and again to get them back togerthr. i invited them to a party. the same one. they forgot thrie differeces, and got back together. if it works for me, it works for u
2006-11-14 10:59:08 · answer #10 · answered by Chris Juliano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋