She's the cousin of the same cousins I have. I'm related to them through my dad's side. She is related to the same cousins through their mom's side. So, I'm of no relation to her. We don't have the same grandparents or anything, so not 2nd/3rd cousins. No relation at all. But it just seem too close for comfort. Is it wrong to like her? I thinks he likes me but she is too shy? Maybe shes thinking the same way I am? How to approach her? What to do?
**IMPORTANT FACTOR**
When we were younger we were like "best friends" or what ever you want to call it, and our parents would joke around saying "watch those two get married when they're older"
And... the people on my side of the family tease me about her and ask me if I like her and stuff. It's like they want me and her to get together, but I don't know. Need outside advice. I wonder if her family teases her too?
HELP.
2006-11-14 10:37:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She isn't blood related ,you like her, she likes you. Sounds to me like you answered your own question. Ask her to go somewhere with you. Go to a movie or some where the two of you can talk. Ask her, not us. She is the one who can tell you whether her feelings are the same as yours.
2006-11-14 10:45:12 · answer #1 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can like her as long as she is more to 3rd cousin. But the main point is u like her didn't you, First of all tell her how you fell about her don't worry it will be alright and the thing is every one get tease over something so don't stressed up okay be cool about it maybe you two a meant for each other.
2006-11-14 18:53:45 · answer #2 · answered by Mystery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always hard for a person to ask another if they having feelings for them but honestly it's the only way ti truly find out. One thing you can do to bring it up, is by bringing conversation subjects about your family or her family and after a few mins of talking you can say something like, "You know it's kinda funny and odd that my parents/family tells me that I should go out with you. Do your parents/family ever do that to you?" and just gradually keep asking questions and find the answer to how she really feels. Hope that helps in some way. :) Oh, and it's not wrong to like your cousin's cousin, though your cousins' may find it weird to them.
2006-11-14 18:46:59 · answer #3 · answered by Lira101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong to like her, that's just how you feel. My friend is in the same situation they are cousins but only by marriage, and they are together and they are going to have a baby. It does seem wierd because you are labeled as "cousins" but really there is no blood there, so it's not wrong. So i think it is okay to take things to the next level.
2006-11-14 18:43:03 · answer #4 · answered by melyssa star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really like her? or is it because you've been teased about her?? nonetheless, if you're not related to her then you should actually tell her that u like her and ask her if she's also interested in u... but since you've been friends for a long time, i have to warn you that you're friendship WILL get affected either way...
2006-11-14 18:49:54 · answer #5 · answered by desperate girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, not wrong to like. wrong if it goes further because it might cause family problems. People get wierded out about stuff like that and never get over it.
2006-11-14 18:41:34 · answer #6 · answered by Kris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol...i see....
is not wrong to like someone..
and if it looks like your family wants you two to get married, than it means you are not related at all..
2006-11-14 18:45:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she just likes you as a cousin, but i say go for it.
2006-11-14 18:40:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you even old enough to start dating?
2006-11-14 18:41:48 · answer #9 · answered by Raven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welll ask
2006-11-14 18:39:17 · answer #10 · answered by Abby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋