...what should i say to him? i'm the first one he's told.
2006-11-14 10:11:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i won't think differently of him or anything - he's obviously still a great guy...
2006-11-14 10:13:58 · update #1
no...he just didn't date girls (or at all) but he didn't have a higher voice or anything...
2006-11-14 10:15:11 · update #2
no i don't "like" him...he's a great friend is all
2006-11-14 10:16:11 · update #3
Give him a hug tell him that there´s no problem, if you really feel so.
2006-11-14 10:14:30 · answer #1 · answered by Lucky_67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He did something very brave, and must hold a high respect for you. (It was his cry in the dark, a cry for respect, he wanted you to know because he has a long journey ahead and trusted you first.... wow, you are a priveladged person but a person with responsibility to accept at this point and extend the hand of friendship)
2006-11-14 10:24:21 · answer #2 · answered by southernboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think this should matter to you, he's still the same person.
I would make light of it and say something along the lines of " That would be right, your not the first one I've turned"
Just let him know it doesn't matter to you and you enjoy him as your friend.
2006-11-14 10:16:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's what he does, not who he is. Or you could take the wind out of his sails and write back saying "Yeah, I know". I did that to a friend of mine. He wanted to know how I knew, so I said his boyfriend was a bit of a giveaway.
2006-11-14 10:14:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him as a true friend, you will tell him that you accept him the way he is!!
My best friend is a gay man....they're GREAT friends!
2006-11-14 10:13:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept him as he is. Nothing has changed about him, that fact that he came out the closet and told you shows how much he trusts you.
2006-11-14 10:12:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be supportive. If you are the first person he has "come out" to he is probably looking for approval that it is okay and confidence to come out to others.
2006-11-14 10:14:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him? That's usually a good tactic.
2006-11-14 10:13:23 · answer #8 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he justur goood friend or someone u have feelings4
2006-11-14 10:15:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say whatever you truly feel. i hope that you don't feel any differently towards him. i hope you'll be a good supportive friend. did you not have any idea?
2006-11-14 10:13:39 · answer #10 · answered by somebody's a mom!! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋