When me and my girlfriend make love i usually have to be on top because she says it hurts when she is. she wants to be on top but she says that she feels a sharp pain around her hip area to me it kinda feels like im pushing up against the back of her thats the only thing that i think might be involved in her pain. what can we do? is there anything we can do?
2006-11-14 10:01:18 · 11 answers · asked by yurbuddy04 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
She is able to get a deeper penetration, the reason it hurts is your penis is hitting her cervix which can be sensative.
2006-11-14 10:02:58 · answer #1 · answered by samanny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In her hip? She might be straddling you at an awkward angle and stretching her pelvis. (boy I wish I had diagrams) You guys could try cowgirl style (with her facing towards your feet), or just having her feet nearer your shoulders.
Typical pain from girl-on-top is caused by your penis knocking against her cervix, although most women experience this as a deep pain in the menstrual cramp region. A TON of women have this. The cure is to not go quite so deep, stallion;) Have her try to not take you all the way in, and to use more of a grinding maneuver than a piston-like motion. Or try her on top when you are sitting up (on a couch or in bed, since if she has to adjust herself around the arms of a chair it's a more advanced position)... this angle usually is less deep.
You might not find that girl-on-top is the favorite position for you two, but with some experimenting you can find ways to enjoy it.
2006-11-14 18:11:49 · answer #2 · answered by MissA 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
try to not push completely try putting ur hands around ur penis (in the pubic area ) just to stop it from inserting the penis completely.. leaving an inch or whatever needed... if u have more than 7 inches.. and the girl is small or 10 inches+
2006-11-14 18:52:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are things you can do. Allowing her to be ontop you can have her bring her knees closer together, so she can controll how far she goes down.
or try sitting in a chair so that she can use her legs to conrol the depth of the penetration
2006-11-14 18:29:42 · answer #4 · answered by SouthernFaithVa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Penetration is deeper when she is on top so thats why its hurting her, use a lubricant and she should be fine
2006-11-14 18:08:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just have her try a different angle. Should work! Unless your sizes are not compatible.
2006-11-14 18:21:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm hello if you had something that weas stichy up iside of u and you where pushing down on it which shoved it up more....wouldnt u feel major pain
2006-11-14 18:06:53 · answer #7 · answered by dutchess 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you care for her, make her talk to her doctor. It could be something very serious.
2006-11-14 18:04:01 · answer #8 · answered by wittmasterjay 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
all ladies are different sizes.. you could be to big or long.. take it slow and work up to it.. it gets better...
2006-11-14 18:02:57 · answer #9 · answered by hpulka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is ur penis pressing into her cervix... her vaginal canal may be short.
2006-11-14 19:02:08 · answer #10 · answered by bigtruckjulie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋