This person believes everything they do is right. When they are in the wrong. Everything this person does and says dosn't line up. They do everything for their benefit. Only consider them self first. They claim they never do anything wrong. It upsets me, I am cold and dis-interested in talking with them. I look bad.
2006-11-14 09:58:08 · 19 answers · asked by Rob 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I see, something like thiis happened to me before. Well one day I decided to talk with them adn to tell them that not everything they say is right, and in fact, most of the things were so bad. I told them that they can't put themselves always first, because with their actions they were hurting so many people around. And I said to myself, they should understand cuz they are my friends, adn as long as they call themselves as my friends they shouldnt get mad at me because I told them the truth, what I think and what i cant stand becasue i couldnt stand their company neither. everything about them statred to annoy me. Well after talking and saying what i exactly felt and thought, they understood and things got better. u should talk with them, and tell them how u feel
2006-11-14 10:07:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you do is call this person and say....
"As your friend, I must tell you.... you think everything you do is right, even when you are wrong. Everything you do and say doesn't line up. You do everything for your benefit and only consider yourself first. You claim that you never do anything wrong and it upsets me. And even though this will make me look bad, it makes me feel cold and disinterested in even talking with you."
...wait, doesn't that sound familiar?
You just need to be honest.
2006-11-14 10:06:07 · answer #2 · answered by secret_oktober_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although it doesn't seem that the person you are discussing is someone you WANT to be friends with, if you wish to inform them of your opinion about their behavior without offending them, don't say they are "wrong". The word "wrong" has moral implications, implying some kind of "sin".
Tell them they are mistaken, or uninformed, or rude, or inconsiderate, or any of a myriad of synonyms that you can find in a thesarus. This person may turn out to be very good for your vocabulary!
2006-11-14 10:03:53 · answer #3 · answered by Monica M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may look bad to them but really you are in the right for being the way you are they are being cruel and dishonest and completly self-centered you have no reason to be nice to them or even talk to them i know alot of ppl who are like that don't ignore them say a word or two to them but really being friends with those kind of ppl there is really no point.
2006-11-14 10:03:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are a true friend they will listen and consider what you say and not take it in a negative way. I tell my friends just how I feel and why.
2006-11-14 10:08:17 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from our man Tom Cruise during an interview with Katie Couric. Just tell the person "You're wrong, (insert name), you're wrong!"
2006-11-14 10:01:03 · answer #6 · answered by noambition 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell them straight up now attitude just say ur wrong and even laugh like it a joke or some thing
2006-11-14 10:01:02 · answer #7 · answered by Macavelli 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, used to have one of those "friends" myself :P
first of all, think for yourself if that person is really your friend. if you really consider him or her as a friend, then you shouldn't have any problem telling this person "I'm sorry, but I think you're wrong"
Hope I helped
2006-11-14 10:04:37 · answer #8 · answered by BTII 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's best not to be friends with that type of person. If you told them they would not believe you
2006-11-14 09:59:24 · answer #9 · answered by keith s 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u can say...that im not trying 2 be mean but what u r saying is wrong
2006-11-14 10:00:18 · answer #10 · answered by Charlie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋