I am 20 years old and my fiance' and I are planning to have a baby! I've been to the doctors and everthing I'm perfectly fine. How hard and how long will it take to have a baby? Someone please help me as soon as possible, my fiance' is very upset because he wants one ASAP.
2006-11-14 09:39:05 · 5 answers · asked by Turquoise M 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Ok. Since you dont want the wedding before the baby, let me just say that it all depends. I think that your young (I am too) but. thats not the point.
Buy a fertility monitor. It tells you when your ovulating and the best times for you to get pregnant. You could go see your doctor and get a routine exam.
There is no way to tell about how long it takes, some women it the first try, some it takes years. Tell your fiance to cool down. It could be his sperm count too!
I would also wonder about his motives. Its is strange that a man (I am assuming your age) would want the financial and mental pressure a child brings to a relation ship. Can you privde your baby with everything you want it to have. Everything it needs. Do you have insurance?? Ask yourself these questions.
Make sure its right for BOTH of you, not just him. If he backs out at the last minute, your stuck. Sorry sister, just want to make sure your aware.
2006-11-14 10:49:34 · answer #1 · answered by SouthernFaithVa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very hard to know if you will have trouble conceiving until you actually try conceiving. If you are in good health and get regular periods (indicating you ovulate), that is a good sign. His primary function is to have ample, wiggly sperm, which can only be determined by having a sperm count taken. For most couples who don't have fertility problems, getting the sperm count is unneccesary.
The average time it takes for a couple of normal fertility to conceive is four months, assuming you have sex 2-3x per week. 90% of couples will conceive within the first six months of trying, and 95% will conceive within a year. You can try charting to enhance your chances of conception (see link). If you don't get pregnant after a year, it's time to talk to a doctor and get more specialized tests done on both of you.
2006-11-14 17:46:32 · answer #2 · answered by MissA 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is different, of course. However, if you've been checked out and don't have any problems, then I wouldn't expect any problems in conceiving. Your fiance may also want to be checked out. It can take from 1 month - many years to conceive. Try to relax and enjoy! If you don't conceive within one year, go back to the doctor for more testing.
2006-11-14 17:44:31 · answer #3 · answered by Blue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does take a while to concieve for some people. Maybe you are just under alot of stress. You said your fiance', well planning a wedding is very stressfull. If there is nothing wrong, try not to think about it every time you have sex. You just need to relax, and not think about it.
2006-11-14 17:51:24 · answer #4 · answered by kld 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the more you worry about getting pregnant and obsess over it the less likely it is to happen....just let things happen dont worry about getting pregnant..just do it like rabbits and wait for it to happen.
2006-11-14 17:42:58 · answer #5 · answered by kndykisz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋