How do you reinvent yourself after breaking up?
what are things you can do to boast your confidence?
what helps you move on ?
2006-11-14 09:38:24 · 8 answers · asked by Karina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't. No need to pretend you're something you're not.
2006-11-14 09:40:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice smiling in the mirror 3 times a day.
2006-11-14 09:40:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people "re-invent" themselves after a break-up to return to who they really were in the first place. For instance when you start dating someone new you might start listening to the same music they do or eating the same types of food etc etc. when you break-up I dont necessarilly think your re-inventing but re-membering who you were in the first place.
2006-11-14 09:48:46 · answer #3 · answered by rr_comix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join a gym, get out and do things you enjoy doing. Be nice to people while you go about your daily business. Take care of yourself (diet/excercise/grooming). Read and do things to develop your mind.
2006-11-14 10:43:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we all reinvent ourselves a little each time we encounter pitfalls and or failures.....You can only be who you are....but choose to go in different directions
2006-11-14 10:22:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A great vacation with the girls for laughs and some fun
A new hair style - new gym membership lol
2006-11-14 09:42:20 · answer #6 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! I am the queen of this! I had a bf who, after 3 years together, decided he could do better, he dumped me for a nurse, oh and he told me he was dumping me for a nurse. I didn't waste two minutes hitting speed dial for a new do. While coming out of the salon, two guys were talking (one had been waiting on his wife who was inside and the other was his friend he had run into while waiting). Anyways, turned out I knew the wife and vaguely the husband, who wasted no time introducing me to his friend THE PILOT! OH YEAH! I got a call from wifey later asking if I would consider going out with him (new in town, just moved here blah blah blah) sure sure is he a nice guy...oh sure! Well I had ex boys car (he lent it to me cause mine was in the shop) and when new Mr Pilot Man took me to dinner he remarked on the car in my driveway. I said oh it was a loaner from the ex, isn't that nice of him? He said "Oh? Can I give you one to use that looks better?" Oh sure, like what? Like a CORVETTE? Oh sure sure....hit speed dial for EX LOSER BOY, come an get yer hunk of CR*P outta my driveway, I have a loaner from new BF and he doesn't wanna see yer car here no mo'! My Mom has the keys, cause I won't be home! Oh yeah....that was sweet! I had the corvette sitting in the driveway and his loser loaner sitting at the curb. I saw him (with nurse girl in the car) driving up as me and Mr Man were driving off and called to him to get the keys from my Mom, she was expecting him. He called for weeks, begging for another chance (NO WAY!!!) and me? I went out with Mr. Pilot for some time. I won't say I loved him, but he was nice and sure hit the spot till I was ready to move on to something serious. He was sweet and very much a gentleman, but just did not make my heart jump a beat. Just the same, sure did make Loser Boy cry, and ya know what....he got dumped by the nurse who got tired of playing second fiddle to his crying about me. In the meantime, I took care of myself, improved my education, and worked out. When I was ready for something more serious, I moved on. Yes all new and improved and reinvented! I believe we should always use bad times as a way to show our true selves. Are we gonna sit there and cry or are we gonna do something to make it better. I say get up and get out there and do something. I like that I am busy with improving myself (can now get better dates, an upgrade if you will) and if I am out there doing stuff, I have a better chance of meeting someone new and hopefully, more worthy. If I am better, it only stands to reason I will be able to attract a better mate. I am careful though, because an upgrade is not someone without a job, living with his wife (but they haven't had sex in a century...yeah yeah). No none of THAT! It doesn't hurt to just flirt till just the right one comes along, or even just having dates, going out with friends too, taking a class in something you love, working out at the gym and so on. I love that! Its nice to be free to see, do and go where I want when I want. Hope this helps you! Good luck!
2006-11-15 02:09:38 · answer #7 · answered by Tippy's Mom 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
youre still you....maybe you dumped him LOL
another Relationship helps me...cheers me up
2006-11-14 09:40:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋