My ex and i first got together when she broke up with her boyfriend. We had the best time. We share the most memorable and amazing times. She wanted me to be her boyfriend but i wasn't ready. She got back with him and he eventually kicked her out the house. Weeks later we got together. We had difficulties because he wanted her back after seeing how happy she was with me. After a while she decided she still loved him and she didnt know who she was with. For about two months it was like a love triangle. Then finally three weeks ago she decided that this had to end. She said she wanted him since they were together three years and she had feelings and he was more familiar. I cut her off cold for three str8 weeks. Her friend called to see if i would go out with them. I did and her and i went to a strip club and ended up having the most amazing sex. She cried said she missed me. Now she wants to be friends who have sex and says she needs me in her life, what do i do?
2006-11-14 09:37:50 · 13 answers · asked by william-h-holla@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds like you are being used.
2006-11-14 09:48:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's more than obvious that she wants her cake and eat it too! I"m sure she has feelings for you and this other guy in her own way but she wants to have the best of both worlds. Now how intense your feelings are for her that's the question. If you have no problem in being the guy on the side then go for it. Though if you really care about this girl then let her go. You deserve someone who is going to be true to you and only you. its quite simple even if she chooses you what makes you think that later she wont find herself in someone elses bed. Good luck!
2006-11-14 10:09:05 · answer #2 · answered by razzle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In relationships for some strange reason how you feel about a particular situation is more important than what the situation really is. But to answer your question, there is definitly something afoot. This is 2006, man. Relationships and cheating aren't just limited to sexual relations. Don't think that if dude got the chance he wouldn't jump on her the first chance he gets. I carry around a brick for just such an occassion. :-)
2016-03-28 05:42:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well man I really do understand were your coming from, if I was really you I would start seeing another person just to show your not playing around because if she knows she can get it out of you then she will keep doing it. What if she decides to get with you and still haves sex with her ex-bf you really have to put the whole picture into play. But hey you know if you are really that happy with her then go for it but dont get your self hurt in the process
2006-11-14 10:19:50 · answer #4 · answered by ericlouisville1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she evidently thinks she can just drop you off on he doorstep and then pick you up again whenever she wants.i would say no anyway because if she's doing this to you how many other guys is she doing this to? and if she is doing this with multiple guys there's a good chance she could get (and then pass on to you) any number of STD"s.if she decides not to be friends with you again, it could also result in severe emotional damage. Besides you sound like a nice guy, you deserve better then a girl who sounds like she's just using you to get an orgasm. save your feeling's and tell her NO WAY!
2006-11-14 09:47:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit being a door mat and tell her to take a hike. A girl like that is just gonna cause you trouble in the end. Ain't no woman (or man, ladies) worth lowering yourself to that level. Being used is no fun. You are worth more than that!
2006-11-14 09:58:08 · answer #6 · answered by stumped dummy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would move on...sounds like she can't make up her mind. She will continue to go back & forth, while hurting you each time. You deserve better, & friends with benefits is definately not a solution. There are too many emotions tied into it.
2006-11-14 09:41:47 · answer #7 · answered by Meh 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take what you can get, but do not commit yourself. Use what she gives you. It's evil, but you don't want this type of girl for the long-term.
2006-11-14 09:49:43 · answer #8 · answered by Jumbonaut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just move on she doesnt know what she wants and is playing games with you, if she really wanted you in her life entirely then she would make you her boyfriend and not just someone she has sex with occasionally...
2006-11-14 09:43:32 · answer #9 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your ok with just being friends with benefits go for it. What do you have to lose ?
2006-11-14 09:41:52 · answer #10 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋