i'm SO pi$$ed at my best friend.?

Question

me and her (sara) are pretty much a 3some with this new girl lizzie...but lately, i've been TOTALLY left out of "their" friendship. they always just walk off without me...and it's like i'm supposed to "follow along" like their little pet. i'm really mad..because after all these years, sara's just DUMPING me, for a new girl. i don't know what to do...=[

should i try and get closer to lizzie then sara is?
or should i just ignore them both?
i really don't wanna give up my best friends...(which i know someone is gonna tell me) but i'm sick of being their little tag-along.

Answer 1

Stop being a tag along. If they're leaving you behind then you need to express your feelings to not one but both of them. Tell that them you don't want to feel left out, you want everyone to be equal. Maybe they're not realizing that they're leaving you out. If you bring it to their attention then they may make an effort to not leave you out and more of an effort to include everyone.
Remember, nothing can be solved without expressing how you feel, so it's always best to tell people exactly how you're feeling.. they probably don't know they're doing this, although it is quite common in females to feel left out in little "cliques".

Answer 2

I think that you should talk to sara and tell her that she need to stop acting like that because you knew her before lizzie and your starting to be more best friends with her than you

Answer 3

Tell them that you are feeling left out. If they still act like you are invisible, then I would try and hang out with another friend more. Unfortunately, the same thing happened to me my freshman year in high school and my friend of 6 years ditched me for a girl she met in 8th grade. I tried talking to them about it and they wanted nothing to do with me because I would not go against my morals. So, I made new friends and I couldn't be happier. So, whatever happens, don't compromise your morals for them. Real friends shouldn't make you feel like you have to be something you're not.

Answer 4

this sounds a little beothchy but be like oh haha sara remember that time! and then that new girl cant laugh and yea, for a little while, be like hey sara wanna go to that place where WE used to hang out? now that new girl has to follow along cuz she foesnt kno where u going
ALSO
mabey u should talk to sara and be like u kno i feel kinda left out, can ya reassure me

Answer 5

no don't give them up if you don't want to... but really, it's pretty childish if you ask me. I'd say find a time so all three of you can talk and just expain to them what you're feeling and why. If they're really your best friends, they'll listen and fix their behaviour. If not, then maybe it's time for a friend change.

Answer 6

if u don't want 2 lose them then tell ur friend that u don't want to b a 3rd wheel than mabe she'll listen, if she doesn't than move on she wasn't a good friend if she left u 4 the new girl. good luck.

Answer 7

Tell them both how u feel they probbably don't know that your feeling left out. & if your so called best friend has preference then move on & meet new people

Answer 8

girl i know how that feels i been in the same situation tell them how you feel if they dont want to change leave the cliche

Answer 9

have you talked to them about it? My 13 niece had the same problem I told her to talk to her friend Laurel about it and she did and it turns out that it was nothing laurel thought tiffani was mad at her...talk to them

Answer 10

Tell them how u feel.