Why is it so hard for me 2 get pregnant? and what should i do to help me get preg..?

Question

NOW LOOK ME AND MY BOYFRIEND BEEN TRYIN TO GET ME PREG. BUT IT SEEMS AFTER HE DO DA DO AND WE WAIT 4 THE MONTH 2 BE OVER IT SEEMS THAT MY PERIOD ALWAYS COME ON... BUT WHILE WE WAIT IT SEEMS LIKE I HAVE ALL THE SYMPTOMS BUT IN THE END MY PERIOD COMES ON NOW HE DID IT AGAIN BUT HE PULLED OUT THIS TIME CAUSE WE GAVE UP SO IS IT POSSIBLE I COULD HAVE GOTTEN PREG. OFF HIS PRE......STUFF CAUSE I REALLY FEEL THE SYMPTOMS BUT AT THE SAME TIME IT FEELS LIKE MY PERIOD IS CUMMIN ON BUT I'VE BEEN GETTIN SHARP PAINS IN MA STOMACH AND TENDER BREAST ALSO THROWIN UP HERE AND THERE....BUT I FEEL LIKE I'M GETIN PERIOD CRAMPS AND WHITE VAGINAL DISCHARGE AND I KNOW ITS NOT NO STD SO WHAT COULD IT BE MY PERIOD OR AM I PREGNANT?

Answer 1

Well in this case you should wait a while, and take it easy, plenty of rest, don't do too much, don't lift heavy things. Yes when you are pregnant the breasts are very tender and even feel like they are going to explode. It is also true that you get abdominal pains when pregnant, I had them for 8 weeks, the abdominal pains, but I knew I was pregnant already because I had a blood test right after the 31st day of my menstrual cycle. I felt nausea, but never actaully threw up. But I had friends who kept on throwing up a lot, one friend had to be admitted to the hospital from excessive throwing up, she was dehydrated. Kept her there about 2 months, I guess they gave her stuff to stop throwing as well.

Did you now miss your period? You can have a blood test after the 31st day of your cycle and they can tell from that if you are pregnant and how long you have been pregnant.

Anyways, I asked my doctor how to get pregnant fast, I didn't want to wait for years. She said best time for conception is during ovulation, that is after your period. She mentioned symptoms of ovulation, that they are the cramps before your period comes, so that is when you should have sex, and make sure that your partner's sperm is concentrated, that he doesn't have that much sex before your ovulation. That increases the chances of you getting pregnant. I went to my doctor on a Friday afternoon, and then the next day, Saturday, I felt those cramps before period, so I told my husband, let's try and conceive. We had sex about 3 times that day. And I got pregnant on the first try, by this method. right the first day I felt weird, I had like a fizzing sensation in my uterus, and then my abdominal area was tender and it even became hard. I did feel nausea but never threw up. I told my husband that day that I am probably pregnant. He said how do you know? I said well because my body never felt like this, and I will prove it to you when I take a blood test after the 31st day of my menstruation cycle. And I was pregnant.!!

Anyways you wait it out now, see if your period comes or not. If it doesn't go have a blood test, that will tell you, if you are pregnant or not, more reliable than home pregnacy tests, which are so expensive. I bought one too, before I did the blood test but I guess it was too soon for the pregnancy test to work. So don't waste your money on those home pregnancy tests. I hope you are pregnant, so that you will be happy, but if you aren't try my method from the doctor, try and conceive when you have cramps before period, and make sure you don't have too much sex with b/f or him masturbating etc. his sperm needs to be concentrated. Good luck to you and best wishes.

Answer 2

I am 5 months pregnant with my first and my stomach has only gotten hard over the last 2 weeks as it has reached approx 27cms long - if you only 2 months the baby is only around 5 - 7 cms long and wouldnt be big enough to make your stomach hard yet - hope this helps!

Answer 3

First off, turn off the caps lock, I don't appreciate being yelled at. Secondly, it's not easy for any woman to get pregnant; our bodies are a hostile environment for sperm. It's entirely possible for a woman to want to be pregnant so badly that her body becomes symptomatic without there being a fetus present. But most importantly, why don't you wait until you are married to have children? Do you really want to become another statistic of a single mother?

Answer 4

First of all, if you wanna get pregnant really bad, STOP THINKING ABOUT IT! CUZ IT WONT HAPPEN! Also, if youthink you are prego, you will always get the side effects cuz your brain is making you think you are preg. and you will get the side effects. Trust me, been there, done that, many of times. Also if you want to get preg. start taking the Folic Acid Materna pills. They will help you get preg. by supplying your body with the nutrients and help it needs to become prego! Also stay healthy and eat properly. Get alot of rest, and stop thinking about it. My husband and I tried for a year, nothing happend. I stopped thinking about it and enrolled in college, and guess what, that month I became prego with our son. Good luck and hope you get pregnant.

Answer 5

well it seems like your still pretty young...& you could have a period when your pregnant..they wont be normal but shorter & lighter...& if the the discharge is more liquidy it could be "vaginal water"...it does happen when your pregnant & still sexually active...& when your young your breast usually hurt before you start & a little during your period...so either way...go get a test & see a doctor

Answer 6

It's perfectly reasonable to consider that maybe, if you aren't having any success, the problem might be him rather than you. I know that this isn't the most useful answer to the question at hand, but considering what I've read, it's certainly something to keep in mind.

Answer 7

Drink Geritol

Answer 8

first off when you're preggo you do have w white vaginal discharge somewhat to liek right before your period, and as for pulling out, you def can get pregnant . that's how i got pregnant. you shouldn't give up, keep trying becuase it's still always fun and give you more of an excuse to do it more often! i wish you lucka dn i hope you get what you're looking for

Answer 9

have sex 14 days after the first day of your period. One of the hardest things in life is to get pregnant. so be patient. keep on trying. 14 days
good luck

Answer 10

first if you two are not commited enough to get married maybe you should not have a child yet.