i know dis is'nt serious but my rep will be lost if i don't figure out what to do. my friends told a guy i liked something that was't true and now he thinks of me in a bad way. my rep of being da sweet lust - free Christian girl is gone. help
2006-11-14 09:00:05 · 7 answers · asked by ATLZtaz300 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Look, I don't think that the guy is really worrying about you.......and from the sounds of it he hasn't paid the situation any more mind.....so just forget about it cuz he probably doesn't believe your friends. If its such a problem go to him and tell him the truth but to be honest you shouldn't really worry about your reputation..it'll all blow over sooooooooooooooooooon! :)-
2006-11-14 11:27:04 · answer #1 · answered by msdione07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you loose your rep it isn't that bad your real friends will stick with you and you will be free of these people after your senior year of High School. Also people will find a new person to pock on in a while. You could also find ways to prove their wrong and/or keep turning the guys wrong that like you for the wrong reasons.
2006-11-14 10:00:46 · answer #2 · answered by baby gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me I know how that is. First you need to tell him the truth that it's not true. Second get rid of your friends. If they would do something like that then you shouldn't be around them, since a true friend would get your back and stop the rumopr from spreading instead of being the sorce. Third if you know says something about it tell them you would never do such a thing. If someone you don't really know says something about it just ignore them.
After a while no one will really care about it. I've been there.
2006-11-14 09:06:55 · answer #3 · answered by glorious_depression 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Well we all are not perfect so get over it I had the same problem and everyone thought I was a man stealer but I wasn't so who cares they are jealous of you
2006-11-14 09:03:03 · answer #4 · answered by Hotmom1216 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you should first confront the person that they told it to. And what to say to him is that I apologize for that comment. even thoe its not true he probably think so. And the was probably offensive to him. Then confront your friends and tell them not to spread rumors nemore. That could probably help.
2006-11-14 13:04:44 · answer #5 · answered by atl_ty2010 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HUH?
Just liking someone doesn't make you bad>
Action speaks louder than words, prove yourself the "good girl".
Character is made, respect is earned. You can create it all- yourself.
2006-11-14 09:03:16 · answer #6 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
words ruin ur repution,,but action will prove...if a guy u like believe believe what other said about u that what wasnt true then screw him...
2006-11-14 09:20:45 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋