I can't do it! I hate the concept of being gay i love women, but men i just LIKE... ADVICE ADVICE ADVICE!!! This has to halt cuz i want to be a normal guy and like WOMEN!
P.S Sorry all gays out there... i cant do it
2006-11-14 08:47:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
AND girl even LIKE me! I really need advice because at this point s*ic*d*
2006-11-14 08:53:02 · update #1
All people who have anwsered and futuer anwserers sad to say Antonio did suicide last night. I am is sis. We were very close...
Plz show your smpahty for him........
2006-11-15 09:35:17 · update #2
We might miss you but I am sure the LGBT community will survive without you. (go seek psychological help)
2006-11-14 08:53:25 · answer #1 · answered by southernboy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First thing I am trying to do is figure out why you are apologizing to us. I have no preference either way or not, I have no intentions of pressuring you, and I do not think anyone else on here will do the same.
Dude, you have to do what makes you happy, but i can see there is something there that makes you uncomfortable. Do not try so hard, just be who you are.
So what you like guys. So what you like women. To me there dude, you can have the best of both sides, but do not force yourself either way. You have to be happy and comfortable with yourself, find out who you are. Do some soul searching. After you have done that, then you can pursue what ever you want.
Oh normal, do tell me what normal is, because there are many Doctors out there who still do not know how to define that.
2006-11-14 17:43:51 · answer #2 · answered by Brad B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your bi, and if you try to supress it instead of dealing with it in a healthy way, then it will blow up on you in the end and turn out much worse.
I highly recommend some therapy. I KNOW this is scary and awkward, but it could do wonders for your mental wellbeing. You need a professional to help guide you and figure out your sexuality together. What triggered this confusion, why it exists, what is the "real" you, etc.
This is a very touchy situation, and you really need to learn to love and accept yourself, as well as know who you are and what you want. Do not feel ashamed, and do not bury your feelings. They will only come back to haunt you later.
You're in control of your life, and you can choose to make it a good one, whatever that is for you. As long as you're always honest with yourself and those you love.
Best of luck to you.
2006-11-14 19:04:27 · answer #3 · answered by neverneverland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay OK, first off calm down. Remember this you are the master of your fate - you are the captain of your destiny. You decide what is right for you, you don't need to live up to your parents, the world, your religion. You have to make yourself happy.
Sounds like you need some alone time to think and get things clear in your head. Whatever your sexual identity is it should not rule you, it should only be a small part of your overall make up. SO right now focus on things you enjoy in life and let this sex thing go for a while. Table it and come back to it later, rejuvenate, refocused and happier. Concentrate on school, work, education, your family, friends - anything that is working in your life. Then after a period of quite time begin reflecting on what would make you happy.
2006-11-14 16:54:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Try not to think about being gay or straight. Let your heart lead you. If your attracted to someone no matter what sex they are give it a chance. Do what you feel is right in your heart. Don't worry about labels society may place on you. Just be yourself.
2006-11-14 17:15:28 · answer #5 · answered by Q~T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, you are bisexual. If you want to try and deny go right ahead and do so but you are never going to be happy if you can't be true to yourself. If you want to live your life straight, live your life straight and don't beat yourself up over it if you find a guy attractive. You can't change how you feel and you shouldn't want to either. Just because you feel attracted to a man does not make you any less of a man and it doesn't make you any less normal.
If you ever need to talk email me and I can see if there's anything I can do to help you feel better about yourself...
2006-11-14 16:58:38 · answer #6 · answered by IceyFlame 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's your fate & destiny to be a gay man. you cannot stop this. Otherwise pray for a miracle, see if it happens. meanwhile I' d like to be your lover. I'll treat you right & make you happy.
You need a man to love you & care for you. You really do & I hope it happens. Email me with your thoughts.
2006-11-14 17:26:23 · answer #7 · answered by blackbird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love women, you are not gay.
There is no normal..
2006-11-14 16:53:10 · answer #8 · answered by coutterhill 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you should change because if you like guys then nobody can stop you from likeing you and you are a normal guy
2006-11-14 16:54:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drama Queen. It doesn't really sound like a real problem. You've just said you love woman. This really doesn't sound like a problem to me.
2006-11-14 16:50:05 · answer #10 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋