just recently got a tattoo of my name. I am happy and also want to get his on me. But i am having second thoughts. I love him and one day i know were going to get married. But im sort of scared to get one.
2006-11-14 08:44:45 · 25 answers · asked by ms.pink 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I'm happily married for 6 years, together for 8, expecting our first child, never loved him more, and I would never get his name tattooed on any part of my body. Sh!t happens, and then you're stuck with trying to camoflage or remove a permanent mistake. We considered matching or corresponding tattoos (the left (lunar) and right (solar) eye of Horus, for example), that way if we ever split up, it didn't say anything, but together, we were a pair.
2006-11-14 09:09:34 · answer #1 · answered by desiderio 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is never any guarantee on forever EXCEPT tattoos and dying. There's thousands and thousands of people with tattoos that they wish they no longer had because the forever relationship is over. Myself included.
If you're going to get a tattoo, which really doesn't hurt that much (and that's coming from a major chicken when it comes to pain), make sure you get something that is super significant to you. Something permanent. Maybe something to do with your child or an animal that has always been your favorite or a particular design you've always enjoyed. And if you're not 100% sure, just don't do it. There's nothing saying that you have to have one.
2006-11-14 16:59:19 · answer #2 · answered by CarlaCCC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rule #1 of love, marriage and dating:
DON'T EVER TATTOO YOUR LOVERS NAME ON YOU!!!!
My boyfriend learned that the hard way with his first wife, luckly for him it worked out that he later had a daughter of the same name.
Use some sense, don't tattoo this dudes name on you, tattoo your childs, thats what I'm going to do as soon as I can here in a few months.
2006-11-14 16:54:32 · answer #3 · answered by marajade_04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No-tattoo of your boyfriends name is never a good idea.What is for some reason you 2 do break up?Then you are stuck with the name of a man you no longer love and also it can make other relationships weird explaining why you have your ex boyfriends name on your back.They can always be removed but it is very expensive and very painful to have it done.Don't do it!
2006-11-14 16:50:52 · answer #4 · answered by mama of 2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have 2nd and 3rd and 4th thoughts about that one. Once you get his name it's there until removed or tatooed over. I know you love him but sh*t happens honey. Better to get matching tattoos or a tattoo that reminds you of him... just make sure you will still want it on your body if the relationship doesn't last.
2006-11-14 16:51:20 · answer #5 · answered by ginyamarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are perminant. I have three, and suggest mabey you wait until you know you want it. They hurt like hell for the first five minutes, but then it goes numb and is not so bad. But Mabey get a tattoo of your boyfriend and babys name togeather. That would be better if you end up hating him in the future. good luck
2006-11-14 16:48:36 · answer #6 · answered by sr22racing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what is your question?
In my opinion tattoo's of anyone's name other than your kids is a totally stupid idea. You can be totally in love and then farther down the line getting divorced, why have that tattoo as a reminder?
2006-11-14 16:48:33 · answer #7 · answered by justwondering 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
My advice is don't do it at this point. I made that mistake and now we are not together. I know too many people who have done it and had to go get cover ups when they break up. Wait at least until you get married and have been for a while before you go that route. You don't have to get branded with his name to prove you love him anyway.
2006-11-14 16:51:40 · answer #8 · answered by Lovemykids 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you do you do, If you don't you don't. The only names that are on me are my kids.
If you do decide to just remember down the road if you felt you made a mistake you can always go back and have another tattoo put over it.
2006-11-14 16:55:04 · answer #9 · answered by Kandieapples 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're probably scared to get one, because you know that IF something may happen between you two (I would hope not.), you know that the tattoo cannot be removed so easily. You're probably just nervous.. or just being VERY cautious
2006-11-14 16:55:10 · answer #10 · answered by Min 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋