My boyfriend has cheated on me time and time again. We have been together for 40 years and have 15 kids together and are very much in love. But he has been cheating on me from day one. He has cheated on me with countless women including my mother, sisters, nieces and even some of our daughters. He has brought home countless std's and I am so sick of having to go to the clinic. Everytime I threaten to leave him he promises to beat me with his personal collection of whips and chains. I dont know if I should leave him or not because I do love him but I am getting too old for continuous stds. What should I do??
2006-11-14 08:43:34 · 22 answers · asked by flushing06 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This whole "personal collection of whips and chains" thing is getting out of hand.
LMFAO
2006-11-14 08:47:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
if you've been together for that long then you're more than old enough to know better than to stay with a cheater, what is keeping you with this loser, you cant say the kids because by now they are already grown up, get the divorce immediately so that you can get your life back and get rid of the trash in your life...
2006-11-14 18:02:28 · answer #2 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know for sure that he is cheating on you then you need to put in for a divorce. if you keep letting him get away with cheating on you then he will never change. i know that it is hard to do but you have to for you. you sound like you should have a man who is faithful not a cheater so leave him so you don't go nuts trying to please some one who dose not respeact you the reason i say that is if he is cheating then he dose not respect you for a person.
you also need to leave him for your childrens sack thats not away for your kids to be brought up.
2006-11-14 16:53:31 · answer #3 · answered by jam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eww this story sounds gross... if it's real, i apologize, but if it's fake, yuck!
1st of all, what the heck is going on w/ ur family.. if ur mother , sisters, daughters are Willing to cheat with him, that is just crazy. if he is Raping them, HE NEEDS TO BE PUT IN JAIL. either You leave, or make him leave. obviously it won't be easy as he is threatening, but find a way.
if ur family are willing cheaters w/ him, just move AWAY from all of them. they can have him. if he is raping them, putting them in danger, do what u can to get him to leave. it is not safe, healthy nor positive for u and ur kids/family!! ur duty is to take care and protect them.
u probaby love who he used to be, or who he is "sometimes"..but if he doesn't respect u, he doesn't deserve ur love, and u need to move on! yipes girl u got problems, goodluck!
2006-11-14 16:47:47 · answer #4 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that kinda sounds like bullshit but if you're telling the truth ur probably too far in it now to leave what's the point? u should've left a long time ago
2006-11-14 16:48:50 · answer #5 · answered by KrIsTyN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life and quit dreaming. You're just wasting time.
2006-11-14 16:47:12 · answer #6 · answered by kathy p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're previous questions were hysterical. Did your brother end up marrying your Grandmother?
2006-11-14 16:47:59 · answer #7 · answered by Debra D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your dream man.
2006-11-14 17:25:51 · answer #8 · answered by November 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are sick for making up a story like this...
2006-11-14 16:48:59 · answer #9 · answered by ohio_gurl042 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You follow your heart desire, if you think he's the right out fine. Don't just stand their and get hurt fight back.
2006-11-14 16:55:09 · answer #10 · answered by Mike 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋